I disagree, my brothers girlfriend , is a stepmother to my two nieces, she throws birthdays partys, coaches ones softball team, and they have family pictures, that she puts together, she does allot of regular mom things , when she buys for her daughter she buys for all the girls even though they don't live with them, she was just in the er with one she got hit in the head with a baseball at an Astros game, so yea I consider her their step mom but my brother and her are not married nor do they have kids together.

Ughh you guys are kind of horrible sometimes, she was raving about how wonderful it made her feel for him to say happy mother's day and all you can do is tear her down?

Op I'm glad he made you happy and that you have such a good relationship with him, that's really sweet

Op that's really sweet.

Awh. This is to sweet. ?

Aww! Your ss sounds sweet! Glad you had a good day op!

I just wanna take a second to acknowledge OP's comment about the child's mother - "she's a hard working mother".

I've read so many rants from women in relationships where someone else's children are involved, and they blame the biological mom EVERY SINGLE TIME.

It's super refreshing to see this kind of positivity. And from a young girl no less. Very mature op.

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This was a really sweet post, OP.

I called my step-son that before his father and I were actually married.. We've been together 8 years and married for 3..so those 5 years before marriage his son lived with us (still does) he's been with me more than his mom, so married or not I considered him my step-son even if I was just the "girlfriend" so I don't see anything wrong with her referring to him as step-son..

Happy Mothers Day btw :)

That's so sweet. My ss who's five gave me flowers and the sweetest card. It made me want to cry.

So I always see how people judge other women because they don't like their step kids but shes posted something sweet and proving she likes her boyfriends kid and she's getting b**** ed about it? People are weird as hell to understand some times?

Lol! Damnn why did this turn so negative? That's sweet he made your day. You seem like you care about the little boy and treat him good that's all that matters. Have a great mother's day ❤

You're OK OP. You and your bf are having a child together, he has a child from a previous relationship, you care about his child, his child cares about you and he wished you a happy Mother's Day....I don't know how people found negative things to say from this post...sad really!

I hope you have a great Mother's Day, OP. I will never understand how innocent benign posts can be turned into drama.

I'm not saying you can't love and care for a SO's child. It just doesn't make you his mom. But like you said SS is much easier to type i get it. Have a good mothers day

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"She's a hard working mother"...You get major points from me for that comment.

So many women say terrible things about their so's "baby mama", and find fault with everything they do. There are tons of us (non crazy) bio moms who would love for our children to have a stepmom who is able to show a little bit of respect and decency.

That's very sweet, op. He sounds like a nice kid.

This isn't the first time she mentioned SS.

Many ladies bítch that the girlfriend/step mom doesn't care about the child but one here is proving that she cares about this boy and this is a bad thing? Sure, that makes sense ?

All she said was he made her day. I don't see where she was playing house.. All this because she said SS. For all you know she could've abbreviated SS: SO's Son. A bit dramatic to make a big deal

I am glad that your ss made your day , I hope you keep having a great day :)

How dare you try to bond with your SO child, you horrible person lol

I'm just kidding; that was really sweet of him. He sounds like he's a proper little gent.... and you may not be married but you can call him your step son if that's what you want.

I've been with DF for 2 and a half years, you would know if you saw my other posts instead of the ones with the room mate. She introduced me to their kid 7 months ago. So thank you. Maybe instead of assuming stuff, ask. I said SS because it's easier to type while playing video games with him. I'm sorry I'm horrible with ages, hell I even forget my age most of the time.

For one, I'm horrible with ages. His birthday is May 27th. My DF forgets his sons bday half the time and I remind him. And I love how I'm being chewed out for my rave. Well sorry that him and I aren't married. Don't have a big enough house for all of us, or even enough money to get another place. So please leave your negative replies somewhere else. Thank you.

Wait... Where did she play house with someone else's child? I'm not sure if she actually considers herself his step mother since I don't see where she said that either. It's quicker to right SS instead of "my boyfriends child" but it means the same thing. I'm guessing she's either pregnant with his fathers child or already had a child with him so she's going to be around that little boy a lot since that is her child's sibling, I'm assuming. That doesn't mean she's playing house.

Yeah, if he were your SS I'm pretty sure you would know his age. Being in someone's life an being with their father for 7 months does not make you that child's anything.

It sweet he looks at you that way, it must make you feel nice.

But you kinda did yourself in on this one. Sorry OP.

It's irritating to the legitimate parents when some girlfriend wants to play house with someone else's kid. She doesn't even know how old he is! A mother knows a child's birthday.

Pp's you're right. She doesn't have to answer any questions that don't pertain to her post.

With that being said, she's never mentioned (that I can remember) her SO having another child. So naturally I'm curious.

Why does a positive post have to turn so negative?

I'm glad he made you feel special op

Where would he even sleep? The roommate is on the couch and you're in the bedroom in just panties... You're in high school. He's not your step son until you get married.

Nope, I'm leaving. Not getting spanked today.

He does see his son, every Sunday and anytime his mom can drop him off. She's a hard working mother. He's a great father to his son. His mom is very weird about Noah sleeping over since she doesn't know the room mate really well and she doesn't like him the room mate. It took a while for her to introduce SS to me. I actually just met him less than 7 months ago

I believe her SO is older than her. I met my SO when I was 17 and he was 20 with a 2 year old. Wasn't the smartest idea and I learned things the hard way but it was my problem and life to deal with. Just like this is OP's life and whatever comes of this is her problem and is in no way anybody's on here problem. She doesn't have to answer to any of you

That's very sweet of your SS op.

That's really sweet!

That's lovely op, don't worry too much about the questions that relate to your post in no way lol

Does he see this child? We've heard a lot about a roommate but nothing about a child. Is he a good father?

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SO had a child at 14 or 15?

Sorry ladies. SO is 19 turning 20 this year. I believe he's 4 or 5. I'm horrible with ages. SO isn't in high school.

I'm also wondering! He's got a child already??

Aww

Your bf has a son? Wait am I reading this wrong?

? so sweet!