Mil Rant?
My mil really irritates me. She wants my 4 year old and his 2 cousins (3&4) for the day Friday. She said she will pick him up and I mentioned I need to buy an extra car seat for my husbands truck. She said she doesn’t mess with car seats when she has the other cousins. I told her he will be in a car seat . I had to tell her twice so she understood. She said well she will use his car seat but 3 don’t fit. I don’t even want him going with her. I don’t understand how she thinks it’s okay.
I’m not letting him go. She acts like she’s doing me a favor by taking him for the day. I’d rather have him home safe with me. My son isn’t a burden to me. I don’t know what she’s thinking that I would possibly be okay with this.
Don’t let your child go, simple. Even if she has your child in a car seat she has stayed 3 don’t fit. Reading into that there will be at least one hold without a car seat. If something were to happen and that child my in a car seat was seriously injured we’ll, not sure about you but I surely wouldn’t be able to live with myself.
She wanted to take them to the park for a picnic. My sil is usually really strict with her kids. She must know though if she isn’t giving her a car seat.
My blood is boiling. I had to let it out. Lol
Children’s lives are so important and I’d die if something ever happened that could have easily been prevented. I told her what if something happened if she had the kids and they weren’t in car seats properly. She just said I know and changed the subject. I’m sure in her eyes I seem like a b**** but I don’t care.
I am so incredibly grateful for my best friend. Last night she and I were in a car accident. I was driving and we got hit by a student driver. My car is totaled, I had to come out of pocket for a rental car. Both of my kids car seats were in the car and I’ve been stressing on how to buy new seats for them, she just told me that her and her husband bought us new car seats. I can’t stop crying.
I can’t wait to put my son forward facing in his car seat 👌🏼four more days
Would you be upset?
Dd went camping with my mil and step fil. Well dd got back today and I was asking her how it went. She told me mil made her sleep in the car the first night with her step daughter who is 14. Dd said she was cold and scared that She was crying. She said mil and step fil slept in the tent. Wtf?? I asked mil if it was true and she said yes, that they got there late and she decided to just leave her in the car with it on. I'm very upset.
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Op, I know how frustrating it is to have a grandparent that wants to be involved but can't be trusted to be solely responsible. Maybe you could have her, the other kids, and your baby over to your house to play games and eat a picnic in your back yard or something. That's better than a park anyway- no strangers creeping around, and those are potty training ages anyway! If any of them are working on that, she'll need to have a bathroom that's quickly available which probably won't be the case at a park.