Stuck between a rock and a hard place
Ok so my sister in law wants me and my boyfriend to move to New Mexico with her after the baby is born since my brother is going to be getting deployed every other 4 months. We're basically going to be living there rent free besides helping out a little I think it would be a great idea to get us on top to be able to buy our own home in a couple years. But my boyfriend on the other hand is stuck for the simple fact that his daughter is here in Maryland he doesn't see her that often as it is because the mother won't let him but he still says he doesn't really want to be that far away from her but I tell him if he gets visitation he'll be able to see her more and she'll be able to come out there and spend time with him. I need advice please
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Honestly I live 2500 miles away from my home town. My husband missed the birth of our daughter because he was deployed and I knew absolutely 0 people. The military raises not only strong men and women but also their spouses! She can do it alone. I wouldn't be able to leave behind my child. What if everything was switched and you had to leave your child behind that you didn't see very often. It's a tough decision. Hope it works out for you guys with whatever you choose.
Get visitation settled b4 you move. If you do everything right and in order it will be fine if not better. The judgement will outline time, travel, holidays, everything. Sometimes things dont work out so we cant stop living just because. My daughters father lives in another state and it works out fine.
Super tough, I couldn't willing leave a child behind, just think if he does move that mother will have even more reason to keep him away(not saying she has a right) but I know if my ex moved across the country visitation would be where I lived until child reached a certain age to travel
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
My 5 year old brother just got circumcised due to all the infections he kept on getting & seeing him in so much pain not being able to walk makes me glad I got my son circumcised as a newborn & planning on doing the same with my second baby.
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Vent:
why doesn't my husband give me gifts or bring me treats? I see all these other ladies getting things like that and he doesn't do that for me! I'm kinda jealous!
Really tough. There's no way I would leave my child so I understand his hesitation, regardless of how often he currently sees her. I'd also be hesitant because everything sounds like a great idea at the time and then people start to discover that living together isn't such a great idea. They may say you don't have to pay rent now but maybe later they will feel like you don't contribute enough.
I'm not sure. Definitely something to talk about with your man and agree on together.