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Michelle
Michelle
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Feeling numb I found out Thursday I had a missed miscarriage and today was my D&C, I would have been 7w3d today. With my…

Feeling numb


I found out Thursday I had a missed miscarriage and today was my D&C, I would have been 7w3d today. With my first miscarriage in October I miscarried naturally at 6 weeks and was an emotional basket case. I cried multiple times a day for at least 2 weeks. This time I have only cried twice. I really thought my D&C would be tough and I would lose it afterwards but I’ve only felt numb. I don’t understand why I’m not more emotional. Don’t get me wrong I’m profoundly sad and extremely angry about having to go through a second miscarriage in only 3 months. Also both of my pregnancies were a result of IVF treatments following 8 years of infertility, which makes me all the more bitter about losing them. But like I said I’m just surprised at how unemotional I’ve been. And I usually cry about everything.

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I have. I just miscarried in September and again yesterday. I was more upset in September than I was this time around. My first mc happened 5 years ago and I was a wreck. I think as sad as it is to say we start getting used to the idea of being let down so that we are less and less emotional about it the more it happens. I know how you feel trust me. Just hang on and keep keeping on.

Parents of only one gender!!

Parents of only one gender!! Do u ever get upset that u only have one gender of children?!? I have 2 boys and I would love to have had a girl but it just wasn’t in the cards for me. I love my boys with all my heart and soul but I often think about what it would be like to have a little girl of my own!! I have plenty of nieces but not a girl of my own!! I feel like I’ll be missing out on all sorts of stuff ya know?! I’m not having anymore children. I have permanent birth control so having another isn’t an option. Just want to know that hopefully I’m not the only one feeling this way