It’s over. Another miscarriage ?
An unfortunate update: we went in today with the hopes of seeing a heartbeat but instead had our hearts broken again. In the ultrasound sound the doctor said he clearly saw the gestational sac and the yolk sac but could not find a fetal pole. I should be 7 weeks tomorrow and he said while it may be too early for a heartbeat we should be able to see a definitive fetal pole. There was a shadow that looked like it could have been it, but I only measured 5.5 weeks. He said there was no chance for a viable pregnancy and wants me to have a D&C early next week.
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@ExpectingGreatness my doctor was generous and ran the recurrent loss blood panel on me after my first miscarriage. And we found that I have the MTHFR gene mutation. He put me on folate and baby aspirin this cycle. I’m like you though and just trying to figure out what possibly could have gone wrong. And what can I do to prevent it from happening again.
Thanks ladies for the kind words. And I’m so sorry to hear that many of you went through similar heartbreak. Right now it’s hard to imagine trying again but I’m sure I’ll get there eventually. Maybe this summer.
Ohhhhhh nooooooo! So sorry to hear this !!! Sending you a virtual hug. I was so hoping for a positive update today ... you were just measuring on track the other day . I hate that this is going on . ??????..... take time to heal physically and emotionally . If you try again I really hope this is it for you and you get your baby !! Many ladies have had multiple miscarriages and then go on to have healthy baby . I think you should have your doctor run the miscarriage panel test on you as well as clotting tests and check the embryo to make sure tests Normal to rule out cause . Maybe there is something like a steroid or baby aspirin they can give you next time . I don't know I'm just rambling because I'm trying to figure this out for you ... I know I can't say anything that will make you feel better ...hugs
I lost a baby at 15 weeks inJuly and I'm getting ready to start again. If you still have strength , don't quit ! It can still happen !!
So sorry for your loss! I have been in your shoes, at the point of complete devastation. Please do not give up! My first child was born just a couple of weeks past the 1 year mark of my 2nd heartbreaking loss. If I had given up, I wouldn’t have my spunky now just turned 3 year old, nor her 21 month old twin siblings. My second loss ended with a miscarriage on 12/9/13 (@ 12 weeks), my rainbow came on 12/31/14.
Take the time you need to recover emotionally, but let your desire for a child push you ahead. I can’t imagine where I would be today if I didn’t push through the pain.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
IUI Monday!!
So today I went in for my routine bloodwork and ultrasound, and found out that I have three follicles at 17mm! Plus another two at 15mm. When leaving the clinic my FS said to take another dose of gonal-f and come back tomorrow to check to see how big they got and that we would do the iui on Wednesday. Well, after getting home, taking my gonal-f and going out to shovel snow (lol) I get a call saying that I am SURGING!!! I haven't ovulated on my own, or even come close to it in years...
Dear Moms,
Preggie mom @njf1216 sadly posted today that her daughter Reagan Brinkley was born early at 35 weeks sleeping, when doctors discovered that she no longer had a heartbeat. Let's send her our love and heartfelt wishes, and to the other moms who have also had angel babies. If you would like to, please write a message to her on this post or send her a private message.
We are deeply saddened by her loss and are are keeping her in our hearts at this difficult time.
Warmest wishes,
Preggie...
Awwwww I'm so sorry you are going through such pain. I can't think of anything that would help but I am sending healing energy. Hope you can recover and still believe it will happen for you.