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cshell1982
Michelle ·Мама троих детей
It’s over. Another miscarriage ?

An unfortunate update: we went in today with the hopes of seeing a heartbeat but instead had our hearts broken again. In the ultrasound sound the doctor said he clearly saw the gestational sac and the yolk sac but could not find a fetal pole. I should be 7 weeks tomorrow and he said while it may be too early for a heartbeat we should be able to see a definitive fetal pole. There was a shadow that looked like it could have been it, but I only measured 5.5 weeks. He said there was no chance for a viable pregnancy and wants me to have a D&C early next week.
04.01.2018

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Awwwww I'm so sorry you are going through such pain. I can't think of anything that would help but I am sending healing energy. Hope you can recover and still believe it will happen for you.
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I am so sorry ? there are no words and it is one of the most painful things to go through. Praying for you ??
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I'm also in the middle of my second miscarriage in last two months! :( it's heartbreaking!!
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Sorry for your loss ? but don’t get discouraged. I had 7 miscarriages and one ectopic pregnancy, one fail IVF before I finally got my rainbow baby due in April this year.
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I’m so sorry for your loss. ?
05.01.2018 Нравится Ответить
I am so very very sorry hun:(
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I’m so sorry hon ? One miscarriage is one too many ... two is just soul crushing. My first pregnancy ended at 7 weeks. Sending you hugs, and praying you find the strength to carry on. Did the doctor do the full immunity tests on you?
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Very sorry for your loss. Sending a virtual hug. Take time to heal ?
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cshell1982
Michelle ·Мама троих детей
@ExpectingGreatness my doctor was generous and ran the recurrent loss blood panel on me after my first miscarriage. And we found that I have the MTHFR gene mutation. He put me on folate and baby aspirin this cycle. I’m like you though and just trying to figure out what possibly could have gone wrong. And what can I do to prevent it from happening again.
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cshell1982
Michelle ·Мама троих детей
Thanks ladies for the kind words. And I’m so sorry to hear that many of you went through similar heartbreak. Right now it’s hard to imagine trying again but I’m sure I’ll get there eventually. Maybe this summer.
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This is such a sad update. I went through this over the summer after seeing a heartbeat and it’s truly devastating.

Take time to heal but you will come back stronger. I promise.

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Ohhhhhh nooooooo! So sorry to hear this !!! Sending you a virtual hug. I was so hoping for a positive update today ... you were just measuring on track the other day . I hate that this is going on . ??????..... take time to heal physically and emotionally . If you try again I really hope this is it for you and you get your baby !! Many ladies have had multiple miscarriages and then go on to have healthy baby . I think you should have your doctor run the miscarriage panel test on you as well as clotting tests and check the embryo to make sure tests Normal to rule out cause . Maybe there is something like a steroid or baby aspirin they can give you next time . I don't know I'm just rambling because I'm trying to figure this out for you ... I know I can't say anything that will make you feel better ...hugs

I lost a baby at 15 weeks inJuly and I'm getting ready to start again. If you still have strength , don't quit ! It can still happen !!
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So sorry for your loss! I have been in your shoes, at the point of complete devastation. Please do not give up! My first child was born just a couple of weeks past the 1 year mark of my 2nd heartbreaking loss. If I had given up, I wouldn’t have my spunky now just turned 3 year old, nor her 21 month old twin siblings. My second loss ended with a miscarriage on 12/9/13 (@ 12 weeks), my rainbow came on 12/31/14.

Take the time you need to recover emotionally, but let your desire for a child push you ahead. I can’t imagine where I would be today if I didn’t push through the pain.
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So sorry for your loss.?
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I am so sorry :( prayers for you during this time. Hugs
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I have been following you too. I am so sorry. I hope you are ok. Take the time to be sad and angry.
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My heart breaks for you.... I'm so sorry. I was so happy for you and your positivity was amazing the whole time. I hope you take time to heal through all this. Your time will come. Sending hugs and prayers your way.
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I was following your posts and so hoping for a different outcome. I was where you are in December 2016. We did get to see a heartbeat, but got our devastating news a week later. I am so wishing you to heal and have a successful pregnancy this year.
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