sex during pregnancy
Hey ladies! So my DH and I are very happy together and are excited for our new little one (my first his second). Just wanted to put that out there first.
My husband wouldn't keep his hands off of me. Then when I hit 33 weeks, he just stopped. He said he was worried about the baby knowing what he was doing or causing me to go into labor. Now that I am almost 38 weeks he is starting up his old habits again. I think men go through a transition period and need that time to adjust to the coming change in their life. I've heard for most men, they get over it after the baby comes if it is a pregnancy long issue.
Wow I wish my husband will stop wanting to have sex Lol... he ask me is your stomach hurting I say no and he jumps on me.. he's like a dog in heat since I've become prego.... he says its the best...Lol. but it'll get better Im Like the other ladies get you a vibrator, or better yet a bunny works wonders..Lol ??
I'm going through this! But I can't have any type of sex. No o's and no sex of any kind. I'm high risk. I'm only 21weeks. So I have a long time of waiting :( we still do stuff but I can't do to much obviously. As long as its a strong relationship then that's all that matters.
With my first, he didn't want to have sex because the baby was "right there." I tried explaining the baby has no clue what's going on but it was just something that made him feel awkward. I was barely 4 weeks pp and we were having sex again. So it does get better, don't worry.
My dh was the same way! Before we found out the gender he would still have sex with me. The day we found out we were having a girl, all sex ceased to exist! He said it was just too weird knowing that I was carrying his daughter. I still don't get it. After my 6 week pp check up he was back on board though, so it does get better. I know exactly how you feel!
Sorry, invest on a vibrator. Im 26 weeks and only had sex 4x. Everytime i bring it up, he giggles and says he doesn't want to hurt the baby. I even tried to wear nice lingerie and all i get is "you look nice". In other words, i have given up because this is just hurting me and makes me fee insecured.
Sounds exactly like my situation. Baby kicked him one time during sex and since then it's a no go. He thinks his daughter knows what he's doing and she kicked him to get off her lmao