Journey ended ? So last night I had pain and bleeding, I went to a&e/ED last night and had a scan today, unfortunately I…

Aww. Sending you love Lizzie. ?

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I had 3 ectopic pregnancies so I know what you are going through. Sending lots of hugs and love your way. Hoping everything goes well without any more complications.

I am so sorry, I 'm praying for you???

I had my surgery in October and a second FET in January.

I am so sorry, I don't have ectopic experience but I hope everything goes quickly and safely for you so you can start to heal.

I am so very sorry to read this. Prayers for you in this time :(. I hope your tube/ovary can be spared.

Hi honey. I can't read and run. I haven't had ivf but we did iuis previously. I have had 2 ectopics. One resulted in me losing a tube the other behaved and lowered on its own. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Please reach out to me if you want someone to talk to. Praying for you.

I'm so sorry. This journey is so dang unfair sometimes. Sending you hugs and positive thoughts. ?

Thanks girls, it's such a s*** ty time. I go back Monday and like you girls with history of ectopics have said I have to bear in mind there is still a chance of surgery and methotrexate as it's unpredictable. I'm sorry to hear you have gone thru the same thing, it truly is horrendous ?. With you girls how long after surgery and how long after methotrexate could you have further ivf? From what I'm reading after methotrexate it will prob be 6 months and I'm guessing surgery timings would be the same?x

So sorry, sending warm hugs your way.

Hi Lizzie,

I went through something similar. They tried a wait and see approach for a few weeks with blood tests every few days. My HCG bounced around though so I did end up getting a shot of methotrexate. More blood work after that every few days and it continued to fall and then rise back up so I had to get a second shot. They never did ANY ultrasounds after determining it was ectopic. If I could go back I would demand them. If I only knew. My baby was a fighter and continued to grow in my tube despite the shots and I ended up on the ER at 3 AM requiring emergency surgery to remove my right tube. I'm furious with how my clinic treated me. Please be your own advocate and make sure they follow you all the way down to zero. I hope you can avoid the methotrexate shot and that this nightmare ends quickly for you. I'm so sorry things turned out this way.

So sorry Lizzie! Thinking of you.

SO sorry to hear this Lizzie ❤

Thankyou, it really is a kick in the tits ?.. my hcg is lowering and so they are going to try treat me conservatively which means sending me home with direct access to the ward at the hospital if anything happens, they said they could have taken me to theatre but obviously I would loose a tube/ovary so after weighing it up they said they would try this way to try to not loose an tube/ovary because I don't really need my fertility reduced further, it means regular bloods and scans and can take 'some time' we got the impression a couple of months but I guess if depends, which means it will put back my FET, if they decide they will have to use methotrexate that will probably put it back 6 months, they also said ectopics with lowering hcg have a good chance of 'behaving' but don't always 'behave' so I may still need to have it removed. It's basically a waiting game AGAIN, I dunno this just sucks, going for the regular bloods and scans at the pregnancy unit is going to be a constant reminder, I feel a bit on edge knowing it's there and knowing what can happen if it ruptures and it just means I can't carry on/make new plans etc! Sorry I've ranted ??. Has anyone had this treatment for an ectopic?x

omg so sorry lizze hugs keep ur spirt up

I am so so sorry for your loss. My heart hurts for you

I'm so sorry. I went through the same thing with my first FET.

I'm so sorry to read this ??☹️?. Hugs ...sorry this happened

So sorry for your loss

So sorry for your loss!

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you while you go through the physical and emotional healing.

I'm so so sorry!!!?

So sorry Hun! ?

Lizzie I'm so sorry!!! :(

Lizzie I'm so so sorry. Sending the biggest hugs xx

You are in my prayers. I am so so very sorry. Praying for peace and healing right now for you.