Husband problems So just beware this will be kinda long but will do my best to make it short. My husband is a good man…

Husband problems

So just beware this will be kinda long but will do my best to make it short. My husband is a good man but he is driving me crazy. He stays at home(online minister), we have no kids & I work full time. in January I took a job as a pharmacy tech trainee with his brothers wife(shes an RPh) at their business. My husband was so upset that I took the job. He doesn't like his brother much and was really mad at me for taking the job. I know how he felt about me taking it but I still did for the sake of our finances. The job I was at was cutting my hours after new management and I couldn't pay all the bills with the pay. I was looking for other places but hadn't found anything so I took that job. Everything was good but now things are not! Was told I would be getting certain things during the job but was lied to and learned that in the long run. So anyways, my husband leaves everything to me! pay bills, make phone calls, cleaning, pretty much everything. I just don't feel like it's fair that he relies so much on me to take care of everything and he is at home all day and has plenty of free time. He complains I'm not an obedient wife and don't listen. I don't understand I go to work and do all of this and this is what I get! I'm very unhappy and think I could possibly be getting depressed. I just took a job with my old boss and getting paid way better than what I was before I left and better than what I'm getting now. So now I don't have to worry so much about money again! I have weekends off and every weekend we are arguing. I never have a weekend that doesn't have at least 1 argument. Sometimes he says things to me that make me believe that he will be leaving me. But I can't be too sure on it. I'm like if it's the case why doesn't he leave then or divorce me? I don't like living in this. He always has to point out any flaws I have and I know what my flaws are cuz he repeatedly tells me and I'm tired of hearing them. He has flaws too!!! Why should I have to come home and pay bills or get up extra early just to go pay them? Why do I have to come home and clean the house when he's been here all day? If I keep making mistakes or am disobedient then why don't you just do them yourself if you know your going to be disappointed by me? Why continue all of this? Im sorry, I know this was probably super long and thanks for reading this far! I just needed to vent.