Sometimes guys just don't understand lol. They mean well, but don't relate the way women do. I used to have workout equipment too, but didn't stick to it because I found out after many years that I just don't like machines, They're boring! I actually ENJOYED working out and stayed consistent once I found something I LIKED. Message me so we can talk about what you might like and I'll encourage you to stick with it! I'm on the same journey and more than willing to help!

I think the first thing that has to be done is set a eating schedule and stick to it. When you know what times you will be eating, you then can add the exercise around it.

I suggest you make a small and private group where each other keep track and report how they feel that day.

Ill be your chubby buddy I need to lose weight Im really over wieght for a 13 year old and I alqays get made fin of and im sick of it I just wanna be fit I wanna be pretty

I am extremely overweight for my height. It is hard to lose weight and my husband can eat anything and if he gains a couple of pounds he will lose it within minutes and doesn't understand why I can't. I just recently started walking. Just stay positive! Any little bit of exercise and small diet changes will help.

I want to lose 50 lbs. my husband tries to be supportive but he doesn't really understand the diet aspect/ clean eating at all. It makes it difficult to lose when the person you share your life with is not on the same page at all. I can never make myself work out at home I have to go to the gym. There's all kinds of motivation walking around!! I started out setting a weekly workout goal in minutes. Like 150 minutes starting out and it helped a lot!

Make me your chubby buddy . m obese and I want to lose weight really bad.

I understand I am in the same boat...lol my husband trys to help me and I don't want his help.I have stuff to exercise with I'm just Lazy!

Yes I can be your Cubby Buddy! 5" 175 pounds.

It's not so much about having a motivator but about helping someone else while your helping yourself. I understand what you are saying but for some people is more of a struggle and unless you can understand that then i don't believe that yourself is always the best motivator. Advice from other people that your working with and understanding their progress and what helped them is something everyone should have if they have problems. I see people always on here asking for advice and tips just take this one as getting it from one person who gets to know the real you.

Truthfully you should be your own motivator because if you don't want to help yourself nobody will want to help you. I might be over weight 170 pounds but I eat more than healthy. It's just my size & I've accepted that. Why wouldn't you want to be healthy & live longer? Eating right doesn't mean to cut out all the foods you like, like chocolate it just means all in moderation.

I would love to be your chubby buddy!!! :)