Second
Those of you trying for your second how did you decide you were ready for another ? My daughter is almost 7 months old and my husband has talked about trying for number two but I’m not sure that I’m ready for that yet , I don’t wanna be pregnant on my birthday like I was last year for my 21st I’d like to go out for my birthday but I don’t want my wanting to drink stop me from being able to decide on my second baby. We originally decided we were going to start trying for our second when she was eight months old but I didn’t take into consideration my birthday , or taking trips anywhere (have a girls trip coming up for Mother’s Day ) anyways just trying to give some info about me to get the best advice. Thanks ladies.
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I think it’s something we probably just need to sit downs and talk about again because obviously I wanna give him the babies he wants but my birthday is in may she will be ten months tax season will be done and we will have paid off a few things and I wanna get a tattoo lol I wanna start my tattoo for my daughter and get our ring tattoos I know he won’t be upset because well I push it out but I know when I’m not worried about things I’ll be ready for my second med free birth of hopefully a baby boy lol
My kids are almost exactly two years apart. When my first was 1 we started trying again and got pregnant but miscarried then by the time we got pregnant again the due date was right around my Firsts bday. I don’t regret it there were things I wanted to do as well but my kids are so awesome together because they are so close in age. It does suck having there birthdays so close together though! We waited a extra year this time around and are now starting to try again for baby #3 and I’m glad I waited the extra time so they will be about 3 years apart this time. It all depends on you. I feel im ready now to be pregnant for a long 9 months again lol. But if your not ready take some time! Your husband should understand!
I mean I feel ready but I just know if I’m pregnant on my birthday two years in a row I’ll be super bummed out :/ haha but if that’s what happens I’ll still love my babies :)
If your not ready don’t push it.. wait a bit longer, go celebrate your birthday your not selfish for wanting to do you! We do everything for our babies (as it should be) but doing things for ourselves makes everyone happy. When moms happy so is everyone ?I’d wait and then when you get that have to have feeling then go for it. At least you know your hubby is ready!! I’m kinda in the same predicament too I want to get pregnant but I want a good summer too. Lots of camping and we’re also building a house so for me the time is just not right at the moment even tho I really want to. I have to just be patient haha
I waited till my first was closer to 2 years old to get pregnant again because there was stuff coming up I didn’t want to be pregnant for. Looking back I regret waiting. I wish I would have had my girls closer together. We are trying for number 3 now and we decided to get going sooner because of last time.. ? whatever you and hubby decide will be right for your family. Baby dust to you when it’s time. ?
Well I figure I’ll update lol because I’m so indecisive sometimes lol I recently spent time with a four month old that was like the size of two month old lol but he really made me want a little boy so I decided that it didn’t matter if I was pregnant on my birthday or not I’ve had 7months to drink and I just don’t do it often enough for it to matter lol so I want another baby and if that happens sooner rather than later then great :) and hopefully it’ll be a little boy :)