MIL
So I don't know if I'm overreacting or not but I absolutely don't like my MIL, it's not that she is rude or anything it's just she is so damn nosey in my relationship with her son it's ridiculous. Everytime me and him get into an argument he calls and tells her what happened which bothers me because I feel like he had no reason doing that. Anyways fast forward to the present I'm 10 weeks pregnant , today I found out that she feels like she won't get to see her grandchild because I won't "let her".now never once did I say I would keep my baby away from his family. But for some reason that pissed me off on why she would think something so stupid like that. & Then my BF is gonna tell me that we have to solve the problem which I don't see one because I obviously don't have one against her (just yet) , and then he says that I Have to try harder because we will need her blessing for marriage ??? which got me even more mad because I told him I wont Kiss @ss to someone who doesn't even care to get to know me or like me.
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I was in the same place but honestly your SO is opening the door allowing her into the relationship. Unless she's living with you she has no need to know what happens in your house with your SO or with your daughter. He needs to man up and draw the line. I was in your shoes and it sucked. It took me awhile to realize the only reason she would call me or text me after I had an argument with him was because he was always running to her to tell her EVERYTHING. And I understood her as his mother but he needed to show respect for our relationship. She made the same comment about her not seeing the baby (in 32 weeks +2) I told him the only reason I wouldn't let my son go to his family's house would be if they would badmouth me. That's a toxic environment for a growing boy to be around. Other than that I don't see why not. Now she texts me every few days to see how I'm doing. Asks about the baby. Makes me food if I have any cravings. But stays in her lane!!! ???? Talk to your SO. Any spats or issues need to be kept between you and him. I am sure he wants you and his mom to have a good or at least respectful relationship with his mom. If he's a smart guy he will see it this way as well. Good luck mommy ???
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