Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
HCG not doubling.... starting to lose hope ? My hcg isn’t doubling ?. My hcg so far has been 12/14: 83; 12/20: 548; 12/22: 747. My doctor says while it’s not doubling it’s still increasing but that it could go either way. It could continue to go up and be a viable pregnancy or it could be the beginning of another miscarriage. I’m feeling so lost and devastated right now. I’m scheduled to go back Tuesday for another blood draw and an ultrasound.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
When you first found out you were pregnant and went to the doctor did your SO go with you and were they allowed to go in the back with you? I want him to go with me to the doctor but I don't want him to just be sitting in the waiting area.
How long did you go through labor? I went through 14 hours of labor when I had Oliver. Would have been longer if the doctors hadn’t given me meds to speed up the labor. I was given an epidural, my blood pressure went down to 80 and they had to give three epidural shots to get me stable again and they had to stop it for 20 minutes because the doctor was out at lunch. 🙄 so by the time I gave birth I felt everything
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Nerelyn: This happened to me during my last pregnancy. My quants didn't double within 48 hours (they increased, just not doubled) so I went in for an ultrasound. The doc basically prepared me for the worst (I've had 3 miscarriages so I was already prepared for the worst). I had a transvaginal ultrasound and she said she would turn the screen and let me see when she found what she was looking for. Within seconds of her placing the wand, her face lit up and she turned the screen for me to see my little baby's heart beating. I measured at 6w1d, which is exactly what I should have been. She said baby's heard probably started beating that day because it wasn't super fast yet and couldn't be heard, but we could see it! She told me the quants are just a baseline and sometimes it just doesn't work the same for some women as it does for most. I have a beautiful 10 month old now, so anything can happen! Prayers are coming your way!
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Thank you! I need positive stories:)
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Prayers for you ?
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?????????? that happened to me with my first child!! I hope everything is okay!!