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Yoli Medina
C-section guilt??
I have a scheduled csection this coming Thursday. I'll be 39+4 that day. I wanted him to come on his own. I wish he would come on his own at least a day before so I KNOW he's ready. I just feel like I'm forcing him out. I know it's only a couple of days before I hit 40 weeks so why do I feel so bad?
I have a scheduled csection this coming Thursday. I'll be 39+4 that day. I wanted him to come on his own. I wish he would come on his own at least a day before so I KNOW he's ready. I just feel like I'm forcing him out. I know it's only a couple of days before I hit 40 weeks so why do I feel so bad?
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No, you makes sense. You're not against a c-section, vbac scared you, you want him out but you're scared he won't be ready by your scheduled c-section. Right ?
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No, you makes sense. You're not against a c-section, vbac scared you, you want him out but you're scared he won't be ready by your scheduled c-section. Right ?
It's not that I don't want a csection. I just feel bad getting him out and not knowing if he's ready.
ETA: I know I'm probably not making any sense ?
If you don't want a caesarean, hold out. Just because it's scheduled doesn't mean you have to show up if you aren't comfortable with it.
If there is no medical reason then tell your dr you want to wait and see if you can go into labor on your own.
You could always put off the c section and just see what happens.
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If no medical reason you have every right to say no.
If I go into labor before my scheduled section then I'd try for vbac. Although that scares me too. Lol.
Have you thought about trying for a vbac? I know not everyone who has already had a csection wants to vbac and that's fine but if baby is healthy and you're feeling guilty ask your doctor about doing a vbac.
Well, you can always say no if everything is looking good.
The reason for the cesarean? No medical reason I guess. That's just when he scheduled me for my repeat section. My actual due date is Aug 2nd so he scheduled it for July 30th.