C-section guilt??
I have a scheduled csection this coming Thursday. I'll be 39+4 that day. I wanted him to come on his own. I wish he would come on his own at least a day before so I KNOW he's ready. I just feel like I'm forcing him out. I know it's only a couple of days before I hit 40 weeks so why do I feel so bad?
I know Is so early but i feel flutters it feels so weird but i love it 🥰
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Wish I could take a full body pic but his Doctor want me to keep him swallowed because his temperature has been really low which has kept me an my baby away from each other all day 😢😟 I haven't got a chance to be with him at all do to it she's been keeping him to keep a close eye on him. I haven't counted his lil toes or none yet 😟 but he's finally here now an I missed him so much omg but I wasn't about to rush them to bring him knowing his health comes first because if it wasn't some to be concerned about they would've kept him literally the whole day from noon to now. Im so in love with him an his brothers put together ain't no love stronger than this.
I just want his arms wrapped around me one last time and hear words come out of his mouth that arent true "I love you".. I miss him so bad. My first love! My first relationship! He was many of my first and I know today isnt even the hardest day yet.. I literally hate that I love him so much.
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No, you makes sense. You're not against a c-section, vbac scared you, you want him out but you're scared he won't be ready by your scheduled c-section. Right ?
Yoli Medina·
Мама сына (12 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
It's not that I don't want a csection. I just feel bad getting him out and not knowing if he's ready.
ETA: I know I'm probably not making any sense ?
deleted-user·
If you don't want a caesarean, hold out. Just because it's scheduled doesn't mean you have to show up if you aren't comfortable with it.
deleted-user·
If there is no medical reason then tell your dr you want to wait and see if you can go into labor on your own.
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You could always put off the c section and just see what happens.
Birthwithoutfear.org
deleted-user·
If no medical reason you have every right to say no.
Yoli Medina·
Мама сына (12 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
If I go into labor before my scheduled section then I'd try for vbac. Although that scares me too. Lol.
deleted-user·
Have you thought about trying for a vbac? I know not everyone who has already had a csection wants to vbac and that's fine but if baby is healthy and you're feeling guilty ask your doctor about doing a vbac.
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Well, you can always say no if everything is looking good.
Yoli Medina·
Мама сына (12 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
The reason for the cesarean? No medical reason I guess. That's just when he scheduled me for my repeat section. My actual due date is Aug 2nd so he scheduled it for July 30th.