C-section guilt?? I have a scheduled csection this coming Thursday. I'll be 39+4 that day. I wanted him to come on his…
C-section guilt??
I have a scheduled csection this coming Thursday. I'll be 39+4 that day. I wanted him to come on his own. I wish he would come on his own at least a day before so I KNOW he's ready. I just feel like I'm forcing him out. I know it's only a couple of days before I hit 40 weeks so why do I feel so bad?
Yoli Medina·
Мама сына (12 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
The reason for the cesarean? No medical reason I guess. That's just when he scheduled me for my repeat section. My actual due date is Aug 2nd so he scheduled it for July 30th.
deleted-user·
Well, you can always say no if everything is looking good.
deleted-user·
Have you thought about trying for a vbac? I know not everyone who has already had a csection wants to vbac and that's fine but if baby is healthy and you're feeling guilty ask your doctor about doing a vbac.
Yoli Medina·
Мама сына (12 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
If I go into labor before my scheduled section then I'd try for vbac. Although that scares me too. Lol.
deleted-user·
If no medical reason you have every right to say no.
deleted-user·
You could always put off the c section and just see what happens.
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deleted-user·
If there is no medical reason then tell your dr you want to wait and see if you can go into labor on your own.
deleted-user·
If you don't want a caesarean, hold out. Just because it's scheduled doesn't mean you have to show up if you aren't comfortable with it.
Yoli Medina·
Мама сына (12 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
It's not that I don't want a csection. I just feel bad getting him out and not knowing if he's ready.
ETA: I know I'm probably not making any sense ?
deleted-user·
No, you makes sense. You're not against a c-section, vbac scared you, you want him out but you're scared he won't be ready by your scheduled c-section. Right ?