sent home furious
Update: they sent me home at 6cm 50% effaced contractions slowed back down to 2-3 min apart 1-2 min duration. And although i get the hospitals view in my eyes its not ok. Because i am only 36+2, they feel its better baby stays in than force him to come(i agree) what i dont agree with it, is the fact i have had a high risk pregnancy from day 1. And i do not feel comfortable being at home this dilated, the doc said i can either have him tonight or not til term(i find hard to believe this dilated). Im so angry and have done nothing but cry, im very nervous and scared and cannot wait til tomorrow when i can call my doc
Thanks ladies, i got about 2 hrs of sleep last night off and on, im definitely in lots of pain. The next closest hospital is an hour away so we might try them for a second opinion. My hospital is only 5 min away from my house. I believe my hospital is short staffed or neededml more room, which is why this happened, my grandpa os in the icu and was also moved last night to a much smaller room due to not having enough rooms. She did tell me whe. Labor starts at this stage it will go very fast(as if i wasnt already stressed about being home) so we will see how it goes in a couple hrs and if i still hurt husband and i will go to the next town.
If you're 6cm dilated i would have thought you'd be delivering within next 24-48 hours at most.
I'll be delivering in malaysia at a private hospital and my ob has strict rules that i'm to be admitted if my water breaks or "loss of bloody show and contractions are 30mins apart", reason being its a humid country and risk of infection is higher and my ob rather monitor his patients sooner so there is ample time to avoid unnecessary medical interventions or potential complications etc or you delivering bubs otw to hospital etc.