Question for formula moms
How much do you spend a month on formula and what brand? I think the thought of spending the money is the biggest deterrent for me to switch. I do think breast milk is best but I also think formula is great since I was a formula baby. I'm just getting exhausted and frustrated with pumping all the time until we can get his tongue tie clipped and hoping that will fix his latching and sucking issues. They're taking forever to get me the referral. Gotta love Tricare.
Exactly Shaina! As long as you tried! At the end of the day, you've got to make the decision that makes you a happier person so that you can be an energetic happy mum to your little one! I stopped breastfeeding because it made me unhappy and I didn't want him picking up on those vibes. Xxx
My son has a tongue tie, too and getting the referral has been a nightmare with them being booked up at choc, too. It's frustrating and he's eating and gaining fine, but my nipples hurt so bad and he's swallowing extra air during feeds which i believe is causing him to get reflux . I'm not sure if I'm going to try to start pumping a lot more, or supplementing with formula. I'm just concerned about the money because I feel like once I start supplementing, my supply will die. It's so stressful exclusively breastfeeding. I feel like I'm barely holding it together to do what's best for this little one.
@Bensmomma bottle feeding is a time for bonding for us too I think. He likes to hold onto my hand or to rub my hand/arm. But yes pumping is frustrating! I'm trying to power pump to build up my supply because right now it's just enough to feed him and freeze 2-3 oz here and there. I would probably make more if I wasn't always getting clogged ducts lol.
I remember reading about the putting the parts in the fridge, idk why I never did it. I have a handsfree bra and sometimes I will feed him at the same time but he prefers I hold him close when I bottle feed him.
@shaina - just wanted to offer a time saving tip since you mentioned pumping and washing pump parts in the middle of the night, you dont have to wash pump parts after every pump, just place them in the fridge between uses and wash once a day. I didnt know this when i was pumping with my first, what a time saver!
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Kgoff, I hope it works out for us but if not at least I can say I tried! Just like you tried :) I was wanting to try Similac Pro-advance or pro-sensitive if I switch completely because i like how they have added immune system support but I will also have to be thrifty and choose what's best for him and budget.
Carly, your experience sounds a lot like mine! I was so determined to breast feed too. I'm still going to try to give it a go with the tongue tie clip but if that doesn't work out I'm going to start pumping less and more formula as well. It's so miserable to wake up in the middle of the night, change baby, feed baby, pump, and wash parts/bottles. I can't feel guilty if I tried to make it work at least.
EMC3, I called today and the office told me they don't accept children under 12! What a mess. So I had to call Tricare back and they moved the referral to a group of 6 ENT doctors so hopefully one of them will have availability soon. I'm calling in an hour or so to give them time to process it. I'm so sorry you have to wait that long :( I hope things get better.
Shaina my little one had tongue tie too and breastfeeding was just horrific for me. Even when I got it clipped I was too traumatised and sore to carry on so I pumped less and less until my milk dried up and now he's solely on formula.
I'm gutted that breastfeeding didn't work out for me but I'm so much happier now that my boobs are small and soft again and I can wear whatever I want. I'm not leaking and stinking everywhere and I feel like I can enjoy him more.
I'm from the UK, I use Aptamil and I spend about £10 a week on formula. All worth it to keep my sanity and happiness!
Xxx
I finally got the referral letter in the mail for an ENT doctor out in town so maybe I can get his tongue tie taken care of and we will try nursing again. I'm so sick of having clogged ducts and now I have milk blebs. So painful.
He's done great with Enfamil Gentlease as a supplement. I don't need supplementation anymore really but I sometimes still give him a bottle at night and just pump to make up for it. He sleeps a little longer with formula lol. But if I do make the switch I wouldn't mind trying out cheaper brands like Kirklands to see how he responds. I don't know how long it will take for my child support to come in since dad is deployed and won't be back until next month. Being a single mom makes the budget tight.
With some smart shopping and looking around we are at $100 a month for Enfamil Gentlease.
A large tub lasts us about 5 days and retails for $37. But we bought of eBay and look at your local Facebook Marketplace. People offer their samples for free and sometimes sell unopened cans they have leftover for half the price.
We also traded our unopened samples of Similac for Gentlease.
It requires some planning and working but I think it's worth it. We have little over 2 months of formula stocked and spend exactly $205 for that amount.
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