Definitely not throwing shade at anyone, just thought this was funny. When I’m 35 my babies will be 16, 15, and 11
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Breastfeeding. I am a HUGE breastfeeding advocate. No, I will NOT shame you if you decide to formula feed, and will not tolerate anyone else doing so on my post. Everyone has their own reasons on why they feed their child the way they see fit.
#mombassadorchat Happy World Breastfeeding Week! Please share your breastfeeding stories and tips! Hi everyone! @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom here. For today's chat we're going to talk about breastfeeding and pumping in honor of World Breastfeeding Week! Both can seem complicated or stressful, but remember you have lots of support here! With my first son I had things going against us for breastfeeding. I wish I knew back when he was younger that we could have still tried! With my second son I was determined to breastfeed, and even though he was born 11 weeks early I wasn't going to let that stop us from trying to breastfeed! For 7 weeks I pumped every 2 1/2-3 hours on the dot to establish and maintain my milk supply. When your little one is born early they usually need time to master sucking, swallowing, and breathing so I wasn't able to nurse right away. When my son was 33 weeks gestational (so 4 weeks old) we were finally able to latch on, and he did great! By 36 weeks gestational we had successfully started breastfeeding, and today marks 21 months of actual at-breast breastfeeding for us! I am passionate in trying to help moms-to-be and moms with breastfeeding and/or pumping, but I support moms who choose not to or for other reasons cannot breastfeed. Remember, I mentioned I didn't breastfeed my first son. I understand both sides. Breastfeeding isn't always easy, but I believe it's at least worth trying! Please help me celebrate World Breastfeeding Week by sharing your tips, questions, concerns, product recommendations, or anything else breastfeeding and pumping related! If you have a question for @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom, please tag her in the comments below! Or share your advice and feeding stories.
AF due 29th, anyone else? Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
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I breastfed and never had to "burp" him really. He never had gas or colic either but i was a teenager that had no clue what the hell i was doing. LOL
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I burped between sides
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I would just say don't break a good latch to burp. Either do it at the end or between each breast (what I did) I would always find they burp from being upright just switching sides in the middle of the feeding.
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They don't get all the air a bottle fed baby does so they won't have as much gas. But you should still rub their back to help them burp after a feeding. But there's many times they won't burp.
I've breastfed 6 babies all over a year each.
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I never burped my breastfeed baby! But she never got a bottle!
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If baby looks irritable at the breast I do. My babies were always gassy so I always burped. What's the harm in burping? I love my babies laying on my shoulder and listening to their little noises in my ear and smelling them rubbing their back and rocking them to sleep that way.
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My sister doesn't well didnt burp her baby he was just born is only breast feeds she dis this bc the doctor and her breast feeding coach told her NOT to ... I told her she needs to bc they can still spit up and have gas....
I personally would .
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You need to burp them. I BF both my kids for 20 months each and I burped them religiously for at least the first few months.
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I rarely burped my son. Only if I felt he needed it.. I had a huge letdown that sometimes made him unlatch and gasp so I made sure to burp then
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I read that too before I breast fed my lil boy and it is so not true lol maybe for some but my boy had bad reflux too so burping was a must!
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Breastfed babies don't need to be burped. I ebf my son and never burped him. There are a bunch of good articles but I like this one. It tells the history and purpose of burping.
http://oureverydaylife.com/burping-breastfed-newborn-28797.html
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Never burped my 3. All were breastfed.
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At my breastfeeding class I was told breastfed babies don't need to be burped, they get the air from using a bottle. But she also said burp the first couple weeks but if they don't burp don't worry about it.
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Burp them either way. They will take in air when nursing too.
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Every baby is different my daughter never needed burped she almost burped herself. My son I didn't always burp but he occasionally needed it. When they drink bottles it's more likely. But when nursing sometimes they are ok. P.s neither of my kids spit up like ever and I'm not exaggerating
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I never burped any of my 3. They would fall asleep while feeding and I would lay them down. Never had any tummy issues.
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Thank you EMC for the article!!!
Interesting how there are different responses, I guess it does depend on the baby??
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I never needed to burp my breastfed kids
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??Also, FWIW, I really love this blog and evidence-based practice in general, but their wording can be a little aggressive and irritating. Take it with a grain of salt.
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When feeding from the breast, I never burped. Only when recovering a bottle did I burp. Never have any thought to burping him from the breast. My sister never burped her daughter either, ebf. It literally was with bottle introduction that has became an issue??
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Definitely burp the baby. Little gas bubbles can build up quickly in such a tiny body and become painful. I burped all of mine and on a few occasions when no burp would come and I'd just lay them down, they would get belly aches. But as pp said, all babies are different.
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I was just reading about this recently and it really piqued my interest!
https://sciencebasedmedicine.org/medical-lore-in-modern-pediatric-practice/
I always thought my first born had trouble with some mild reflux bc she spit up a ton, but after reading this, I've considering the idea that I actually aggravated her tummy rather than helped it by burping. Esp since She was EBF at the time and had a great latch = minimal air/gas bubbles.
Scroll down to the burping section. It's good food for thought. I plan on delaying some burping early on to test things out.
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I always burped my daughter. It depends on the baby though. If you find your baby never burps and doesn't seemed bothered by it, then you could stop. But I would at least try
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I thought it sounded like it wasn't true but I wasn't sure. It's something I never really thought about, I just assumed they would still need to.
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Yes, you still burp them. Some need to be burped more