I think that your body has extra work to do so they assume you will lose body fat but maintain with baby weight. I was 90 pounds over my "ideal" weight. I lost 23 pounds since becoming pregnant and I have only gained about 6 pounds of that back so I am still -17 pounds at 25.3 weeks
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Im 25+3 and I've gained 19½ lbs so far, I was following slimming world before i got pregnant and lost 3 stone 5lb. I'm still following the plan loosely, not to lose weight, just to control my weight gain.
My midwife said yesterday that I have gained 26½lbs! How can she be so wrong? I know how much I've gained because its written in my slimming book every week! She is now saying that she needs to monitor my weight gain closely because I should only gain between 11 and 20lbs through my whole pregnancy ?
I came away feeling really bad, like I had done something wrong.
This matches what my midwife told me. She said 25-35 but she thinks 30 would be perfect for me. I know they do recommend a little more for underweight women and a little less for overweight women. At least that's what the information I've been given says.
I was just talking about this today. I'm so worried I'm going to gain too much weight. Between my two kids and work I rarely have the energy to exercise anymore and my eating habits someday are horrible.
I appreciate this picture though lol. I'm so ready to see 30 pounds drop off in the first week lmao wishful thinking.
I just see a lot of women posting about being worried about weight gain, thought this might help some!
Kitty, I'm not an expert on pregnancy weight gain but I do know every woman is different! As long as you and baby are healthy, things are all good!
I feel like my breasts are way more than 1-2 lbs too! Lol. But, I do understand it's hard to find balance between not gaining too much and not gaining enough. I'm on track (and could even stand to gain a couple more pounds) by all my weight gain calculators and charts, but at one point I literally gained 2 lbs in two days. It leveled off but still, it was crazy.
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Weight gain recommended by your doctor is based off your starting weight. I was extremely fit, just got married so I was working my ass off hahaha Less than 12% body fat. So she told me 30-40 lbs is my target weight gain. At 26w4d I've gained 22 lbs so I'm right on track. Don't ever go off of what others gain. We all have different body types so comparing apples to oranges isn't going to do anything other than drive you crazy and make you feel bad. Just listen to your doctor. If they are concerned then that's when you should be.