Baby fever?
Why do I have so much baby fever? DD is almost 4 yo, DS is 1.5 yo. When I was pregnant with DS, even before we knew the gender, we had decides that we would stop at 2 kids. Our house is not big enough, our car is not big enough, grandma would have more trouble taking care of 3 (she babysits about once or twice a month), my kids sleep well, I don't think I would be organised enough to manage 3 kids, our life is not too much chaos, we gave all our things away....
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I felt that way after my first 2, but I always knew deep down that I would regret not having a third!! Now that I have 3 I've gotten baby fever a few times, but I always ask myself if I'd regret not having one more and the answer is NO I won't regret it. Maybe have a talk with your SO and see how he feels about one more.
I thought we were gonna be done with 2 because I had such a rough pregnancy and birth with our DS. But then I had bad baby fever when my friend and an aunt had their boys in March. I was like omg how I want another. SO was not game at all. But in May I found out I'm pregnant again! Despite being careful (BC on both ends) we still got pregnant. And I'm really excited.
I would be happy and freaked out at the same time if I found out I'm pregnant!
I talked to SO and he's not on board right now. He says that he would think about it if we had enough money to move in a bigger house. I'm on the pill and asked him to wait a couple of years to get a vasectomy. But anyway, I wouldn't do anything on purpose if he wasn't ok with it. We'll see a bit later down the road!