Found out last week I was pregnant im 22yrs old and this is my first pregnancy excited but scared go to the doctor February 12 anyone have any advice I would much appreciate it
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
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I'm in the same boat! And I'm the same age. But definitely try to enjoy it, because before you know it you'll be holding your little one. It may be hard if you're feeling sick, but enjoy every minute. I have been feeling a bit overwhelmed too, but I am trying to enjoy it :)
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You will be fine. I was younger then you when I had my first you got this... I will be 22 in 2 weeks and recently found out I'm pregnant with my second child.
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Pregnancy, is fun!!! Enjoy the bump as much as possible! Don't smoke or drink please!! I hate seeing that, babies don't have an option they get what we give them so please don't (if you do) and don't complain about your pregnancy, have fun with it!! Go with the flow; be one with the bump!! Cause you never know, you may never want to have another baby after your first or you might not be able to conceive after your first anything is possible; so treasure the pregnant days. 2. Labour and birth SUCKS! it hurts like hell. So don't be one of those moms who says "I refuse the epidural, I want a drug free labor!" Look, pushing babies out of your body isn't a pleasant feeling so keep your mind open to all possibilities. You can for sure aim for no epidural and morphine, but on your hospital booklet, just put down that you want one cause when the time comes they will have it ready if you still want it (due to the booklet answer) and if you decide during labour you don't want it then you don't have to have it. Simple as that. And one last thing, all ftm want to breast feed. In the hospital booklet it'll ask what you want. Breast feed or formula. Write down both. Or formula. But when baby comes don't afraid to whip out a boob. Just if you have a hard time with the breast and you wrote down breast then they push you for so long to practice breast feeding and sometimes get pushy or rude about it. It can become more stressful than enjoyable. So your the mom, you make the decisions. Don't let any nurse get pushy or rude with you. They will keep you in hospital til they think your ready to breast feed on your own so just write down both or just formula.
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Just try to relax and know that you're going to be fine :) there are plenty of girls much younger then you that are successful mothers. It's quite the adjustment but everything really does happen in its own time so the universe just felt you were ready :) I had my first at 26 and was still freaking out. Like I said it's a big life change so it's natural. Just try not to get too stressed :) enjoy it!! It's the greatest gift.
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Congratulations! No advice yet as this is my first and I've been reading and searching ever since I found out lol!