Custody rant!!!
Not prego related but I have to get this out... My DH has a dd from a previous relationship.. It's very complicated... The mom moved out of California with the kid without my DH knowing bout it... We have been looking for them for the past 8 yrs... When we do find the mom she refuses to speak to him and refuses to allow him contact with dd.. Even though they have joint legal custody...
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Not going through the exact same thing but my fiancees daughters mother is unfit. And weve been fighting for 3 years to get her. But when we need papers served on her we cant find her but they can always find him. We have a court date this month and we have picture evidence of different issues. And hopefully he will be granted visitation. I wish you guys luck. Step fathers shouldnt have the right to get right because parents arent together id never ask my fiancee to ask her mom to sign over rights for me. People go to far and she is crazy for even thinking it
She is ridiculous...
DH isn't making any decision right now, but I don't think he will sign the papers..
My moms idea was to have dd spend the summer with us, and then if she wants stepfather to adopt her, to sign it... That way at least DH can hear it straight from his dd...
Idk it's a crazy complicated situation...
Definitely get a lawyer. Custody, especially with an ex like your DH's is not something I would recommend doing without one! We are in a very different position but also dealing with a crazy ex and custody. We tried without a lawyer and got no where. Find a good one and at least have a consultation. Write down everything you want to know/ask etc before you meet with one, so you are prepared.
Would it be best for us to get a lawyer?? Or just deny to terminate rights??
We are looking at getting a consultation with a lawyer to at least get advice..
We have talked to a few lawyers, and they all say that since the divorce and custody was done in California we would have to go to court there to get it dealt with... And then it's a matter if finding her, which ( until now) we have not been able to figure out where they lived.. We had only found her online, on Facebook and other sites..
We were actually going to be filing the paper work in August when we go to California.. Up until now we didn't have the money to get to Cali to deal with it..
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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Pls don't let him sign the papers. It sounds like he's actively trying to be in her life but the mom isn't allowing it. It'd be different if he wasn't trying. You def need to hire a lawyer and show them everything you've been doing to locate her to no avail. To the little girl it'll make a huge difference in how she thinks of her dad knowing that he didn't just abandon her. Good luck!