Youre very welcome love.

Aw I'm sorry to hear of your loss Angi- wishing you a sticky bean very soon and thank you for your advice and replies X

I'm on cycle 7 since my loss.

Having days of positive opks is normal. Preseed is good too.

Thank for your replies Angi and sNavarro, sorry I haven't been on since last night. Anyway, have decided it's a go for preseed and the purple CBs. I have picked up my surges on the cheapie ones but honestly I do sometimes struggle with the is it /isn't it and wondering if I'm getting it wrong. I had three solid days of positive opks this month. Three days!

As my cycles are regular do you think I should give soy a miss? Id hate to mess with my cycle but not sure if the possible Bfp benefits outweigh it?

We haven't had any tests so far sNavarro. I've been to my GP (I'm in the uk) this month and he said as we've had a successful pregnancy in the last 2ish years then we are both presumed fertile and that really with every month that passes it is more likely to happen as we can expect it to happen in the first 12 months (got to love his positivity). Anyway, he said to go back after 12 months. I was concerned as I've recently turned 35 but he said with regular cycles and the recentish pregnancy I really had no cause for alarm.

I am getting so frustrated and consumed by it all. And I know that's not good for TTC but honestly I don't know how to switch off from it. X

Clear blue has always been reliable as well. Do you have a problem detecting a surge ?

The preseed couldn’t hurt... especially because it’ll give you a more alkaline ph if you tend to be on the more acidic side. Have you had your so’s sperm tested at all?

The purple ones are better ... Clearblue advanced !