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Jenn Sluder
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belly touching Anyone else NOT cool with friends etc randomly touching your "belly?" I'm 14 weeks and baby is still…

belly touching

Anyone else NOT cool with friends etc randomly touching your "belly?" I'm 14 weeks and baby is still super low, just an inch or two above my underwear line and my friends INSIST, even after me making a Facebook post saying not to do it, on touching my stomach. I seriously don't even want to leave the house or see any of them until the shower if they are going to be touching me after I've told them it makes me uncomfortable. Frankly, their complete lack of respect for my wishes is pissing me off. I've decided that if they touch my stomach, I'm going to start rubbing theirs, too. If they are going to make me feel weird and uncomfortable, I'm going to dish it right back. Wish it didn't have to come to this because I know I'm going to have to just be a real b**** about it to get my point across. WHY CAN'T PEOPLE JUST RESPECT MY WISHES???? Pregnant bellies are not public property! Rant over.

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deleted-user

deleted-user

I love the idea of those "look but don't touch" stickers. Where can I get some? I haven't had trouble with ppl trying to touch my belly yet, but if I do, I'm gonna plaster those stickers all over me. Might do it anyway. I hate ppl touching me lol.

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deleted-user

deleted-user

I've seen so many people have this issue and honestly, I never ever had anyone try to touch my stomach with DS. Even my sister was weirded out when I offered to let her feel him kick ?

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deleted-user

deleted-user

Sometimes i don't even want my hubby grabbing my belly.

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loveobx05

Jenn Sluder

My boyfriend is the only one I would have zero problem with touching my stomach, top, bottom, whatever. But even he isn't doing it yet because he knows where the baby is and rubbing my stomach is just awkward! It absolutely drives me CRAZY. I know some people don't mind it, and more power to them, but I just think people should ASK and respect whatever answer you give them instead of acting like the bump is public property! So weird. I'll be a little nicer to family and close friends but strangers and people I don't know well, I would snap. ? Hellooooo hormones!

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deleted-user

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I don't mind my friends or sister but lord my baby's dad is forever trying to kiss and rub my stomach and it would irk my soul because the baby is still low like bro stopppp idc if it's our baby it's literally MY STOMACH!! lol

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deleted-user

deleted-user

Omg I can't stand it. I'm 17w4d and baby is about to my belly button. And ppl wanna touch the top like noooo that literally my stomach. Can you please stop. I don't like it.

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deleted-user

deleted-user

I'm fine with them

Touching my belly, I know they can't help it, as long as they don't touch my babies when they are born! I found stickers that say "look but don't touch" and I plan on using them on my twins anytime I go out of the house or have guests over!!!!

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deleted-user

deleted-user

I agree. To me it's intrusive.

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