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Pumping I hate pumping. It's damn near impossible with a newborn and an almost 3 yr old. But my lo…

Pumping

I hate pumping. It's damn near impossible with a newborn and an almost 3 yr old. But my lo isn't gaining weight so I have to pump and bottle feed after every nursing session. So I breastfeed for 45 min (nurse, burp, change diaper, nurse, burp), bottle feed an extra ounce, then pump for 10-15 min. And do it all again next time. And lo does not like to sleep or be put down. How on earth do I do this?

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I'm almost in the same boat. She's such a lazy eater and falls asleep within 5 min and when dealing with my 2.5 yo when he's not in daycare it's hard. So now when I feed, I put her on one side and pump the other side. When that side is empty I switch, then feed her what I've pumped. It cuts down on so much time. And do you swaddle yours? That helps mine a lot. Throughout the night when I put her back in her cosleeper she'll move around a little or make some noises but, I know she's fully fed and dry, and will go back to sleep.

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Hopefully the pumping and supplements of BM will boost your supply and baby will start gaining, then you can get back to EBF in a week or so. I know your pain, I had to do that with DD#1.

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mommylove1

MommyLove1

She sleeps decently at night swaddled in the cosleeper. And when dh is home he helps. It's during the day that's the problem.

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Make sure the baby isn't too warm when nursing to keep them awake. How old is the baby?

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Her doctor was concerned about weight when she was 4 days old. But that's when they loose their weight. She was a good little eater with lots of poopy diapers. So I gave her a week and she was exactly where the doctor wanted her to be with no formula or pumping even though formula supplementation was recommended.

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mommylove1

MommyLove1

My lo is 2w 3d old and hasn't gotten back to her birth weight. Had another weight check today and she gained an ounce and a half in 2 days. Ped wants an ounce a day gained. I am exhausted and overwhelmed and worried and all this triggers my body image issues so I lost it in the ped office just crying like a fool. I have gigantic boobs (36E before my last pregnancy, 38H in between pregnancies but a 40K when nursing) and flat nipples and have always hated it. It's ironic I always wanted a reduction but never did it in my younger days (when my parents insurance would have paid for it!) bc I wanted to be able to breastfeed someday. Well, it's someday and I haven't been able to get any of my babies to latch. This is my last baby. I'm just having a hard time dealing with all the feelings associated with everything. So now the plan is to alternate 2-3oz of breast milk and formula each feeding. I'm going to keep pumping and try to build up my supply bc I only make 2oz every 3-4 hours.

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I feel for you... my little girl has a cleft lip and palate so I she cad be tough during feedings lasting 45 minutes and then I have to pump all the time so pumping is around a half hour or more. She was loosing weight so now I'm on a two hr feeding schedule and as soon as I'm done it's almost time to start over again. Plus I'm raising her alone... pumping feels so sterile I feel like agriculture ? She is worth it though! ??

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mommylove1

MommyLove1

Well, now I'm pumping exclusively. LO just wasn't transferring enough milk to gain weight via nursing. My supply tanked and I've spent the last week and a half doing everything in my power to bring it back. Pumping around the clock 8-10x a day, drinking obscene amounts of water, oatmeal with ground flax in it every day, fenugreek, brewers yeast, lactation cookies, etc. The good news is that after just 3 days of EPing (and supplementing formula when I don't make enough breastmilk), LO gained 8.5oz!!! That makes it all worth it.

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deleted-user

I feel ya. I have a 17 month old and my daughter just turned 3 and a newborn and I exclusively pump and it's so draining and I'm so exhausted and ready to give up

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