Scared...
Why am I so petrified of another baby, this will be my fourth and I really don't know how I'm going to spread my time between them all,my oldest has complex needs and I'm still up all night with him, my 2nd has heart problems so I have to give him medication at night and my youngest is 20 months and started waking at night wanting cuddles etc, I know I can do it as I did with my younger ones but they where all bad at the same time recently and it was horrendous so I'm in panic mode, this will be our last baby so I'm trying to enjoy being pregnant even if it is a very bad pregnancy with lots of complications, sorry for moaning I do feel really lucky to be having another baby and In no way regret it, I feel so overwhelmed right now ? xx
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Thanks ladies ? definitely not a super mum tho haha, my hubby helps a lot but I have mummy's boys who always want me never Him at night ? we just sat and wrote down all the things I do at night and he is going to try take over seeing to one of the boys then when baby is here might be a little easier and more manageable but I know soon as I have him I'll want to do everything again as I'll be back to my normal self as I'm stubborn and I like things done a certain way haha x
Aww hun I could've wrote this today I am looking forward to meeting my little girl but scared to death as well as I already have my hands full with the boys. I always think of you as supermum you have far more on your plate than me and you seem to cope better than I do lol.
All I can say is I think it will fall into place and they aren't very little for long are they, I was saying to hubby I would prefer to give birth to a 2 year old because at least they're a bit more robust hehe.
Does your oh help out? Or any family? I don't get any help from family as they don't live close enough really but I'm going to make sure my hubby helps out more than he does now! Xx
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Sad panda
Blah. I'm really sad about it, but we are moving to Washington state before the end of the year ???. My family lives there, and I went to part of high school there and we lived there for a couple years when our oldest was a baby. So it's not ALL bad. But...I'm still sad to leave my neighbors ????
Took this lastnight...and I'm not sure how I should feel. I've made a terrible mistake by having sex so soon after having a baby but it has made such a precious thing. I really don't want to have an abortion but my Fiancé does. I understand why he wants to go that route but I just would feel absolutely terrible about doing that. I cried all night...I really don't know what to do. PLEASE NO JUDGING IM ONLY POSTING THIS FOR SUPPORT.
Any 1st time moms who had a c-section? My due date is Wednesday. At my Dr appt today, my Dr said I'm not dilated at all. My baby has been measuring big all along, and my Dr now estimates he is about 9.5lbs and doesn't think I can deliver him naturally... so she scheduled me for a c-section on Thursday. This is my 1st baby, and I really don't know how to feel about it all.
Fiona you will be brilliant it will all fall into place once baby is here..?