Scared...

Why am I so petrified of another baby, this will be my fourth and I really don't know how I'm going to spread my time between them all,my oldest has complex needs and I'm still up all night with him, my 2nd has heart problems so I have to give him medication at night and my youngest is 20 months and started waking at night wanting cuddles etc, I know I can do it as I did with my younger ones but they where all bad at the same time recently and it was horrendous so I'm in panic mode, this will be our last baby so I'm trying to enjoy being pregnant even if it is a very bad pregnancy with lots of complications, sorry for moaning I do feel really lucky to be having another baby and In no way regret it, I feel so overwhelmed right now ? xx

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Fiona you will be brilliant it will all fall into place once baby is here..?

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You'll be amazed how quickly they and you adjust. Baby four had colic but other than that the others kind of accepted I was busy. They would still have cuddles etc and time but weren't as demanding wanting me immediately they learnt to wait, including ds2 who is mega hard. Xx

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Fiona ·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Thanks ladies ? definitely not a super mum tho haha, my hubby helps a lot but I have mummy's boys who always want me never Him at night ? we just sat and wrote down all the things I do at night and he is going to try take over seeing to one of the boys then when baby is here might be a little easier and more manageable but I know soon as I have him I'll want to do everything again as I'll be back to my normal self as I'm stubborn and I like things done a certain way haha x

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Fiona you will cope cos that's just what mumma's do when it has to be done you just do it without thinking about it!!!xx

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Aww hun I could've wrote this today I am looking forward to meeting my little girl but scared to death as well as I already have my hands full with the boys. I always think of you as supermum you have far more on your plate than me and you seem to cope better than I do lol.

All I can say is I think it will fall into place and they aren't very little for long are they, I was saying to hubby I would prefer to give birth to a 2 year old because at least they're a bit more robust hehe.

Does your oh help out? Or any family? I don't get any help from family as they don't live close enough really but I'm going to make sure my hubby helps out more than he does now! Xx

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