I hve my pram and the nursery furniture. I've also got a few bits of clothes. A lot of things are getting brought for us by family, so we don't actually hve much to get. We've started the decorating of the 2 spare rooms, so hopefully the nursery will get there soon.

Biggest waste of 60 quid ever ? god yours really is going fast! Third trimester nearly already ? have you started shopping yet?

Pah ha ha, good idea! I swear them things sound lethal! ??

I'm alright thank u, nearly 24w and then nearly 3rd trimester! It's going by so fast but I'm so pleased! I jst want little one here with us now! ?

Seriously things will greatly improve when u can feel movements. They did for me, and I jst immediately felt better knowing that baby was well in there. I could relax more, felt better about doing things, etc. It was jst a massive weight lifted! Movement started lightly about 18w, and then by 21w it was more regular. It's getting stronger and more frequent every day, and u get to learn what times of the day baby is awake and moving most. It's so great! ?

Ya I got colin to bring it to work with him so I won't be tempted to go near the stupid thing again ? bahaha ya I'd be all day writing. I can't wait to feel movement I swear I might finally relax a bit! How's everything going with you Lottie?

I'm glad u managed to find the heartbeat and give yourself a bit of peace! That's the one reason I completely avoided buying a Doppler, cuz I jst knew I would get obsessed with it! ?

I did start writing down all the times and things I was stressed and worrying over, but I gave up cuz there were jst too many! ?

You'll soon be approaching the 20w mark though Hun, and that's when you'll start feeling definite movements. The relief is amazing, and jst knowing that baby is moving and ok every day is the best feeling ever! I've relaxed so much since then, and I can finally enjoy been pregnant. ?

We should write a diary of all the times they made us panic and wallpaper their rooms with it ?? there should definitely be 18 years worth of guilt trips there

@gray I know ? it'd be nice to be able to enjoy it. Even just for a solid week. We'll get there I'm sure. If only our little ones knew what they were putting us through eh?

@mizlirpa oh hun loads of baby dust your way. You'll be a blubbering wreck like the rest of us in no time....its a good thing though I swear ?

I can't wait to join you girls instead of just lurking and liking comments (feels creepy). I'm glad your babies are healthy and thriving! Stay positive! Hoping to join your club soon.

I think if we told people how much feeling sick and crap meant to us they'd have us committed ? it's great though lol. Can't wait for the days we feel some movement. Then we'll have a whole new set of things to freak out about ?

I said it once and ill say it again....its a loooooooong 9 months ? enough about me. Are you getting through today ok? I know it's a tough one for you too x

Found her ?????? oh dear god ill sleep tonight after that. As usual girls thanks so much for listening to my neurotic ramblings. Love you all xxx

I'm after working myself up in to some state ? go me

My midwife wouldn't check for heartbeat until 16 weeks as she said it can still be very hard up until then, even for professionals. Please try not to worry Hunni.

I had a bad dream too, I think we are just afraid because it's close to how far we were last time. Some of my symptoms feel less too but I think it's just anxiety.

Look for somewhere where you can get a private U.S...

That might give you peace of mind.

Been trying for hours with no luck Hillary ? I really think it might be bad news. This was the same week I lost my first baby. My belly is gone down a good bit too and I can't feel my uterus at all. Haven't felt flutters in days. I think my dream was trying to tell me something

I'm 17 weeks an still have trouble finding her heartbeat BC she likes to hide in my back! Don't let it stress u out! Take a break for a few minutes or even hours an just be patient. Like sometimes I have to angle the probe all stupid to get it. Its annoying sometimes an other times it's so easy. Just depends on the Lil one really.

I had an awful dream last night too ????

I had a bad dream and thought it'd put my mind at rest. I'm a mess now I can't stop shaking ?

I couldn't find mine the other day but when I went to doctors they found it straight away! We aren't professionals so I think don't worry and stop using that machine!!!!

No sometimes it's still difficult at 14 weeks don't panic I'm sure you will be fine.