Mikayla
macca95
Mikayla·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)

Another post got me thinking..

For those with 'step-parents'..

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All my parents have different names. Some they chose themselves. Others my dd chose for them.

My mom is Gram or Grammy.

MIL is Memaw.

Stepmom is Grandma.

My Dad is Grandpa.

FIL is Papa.

Stepdad is Pop.

They are all grandparents. My kids don't care if they are step parents to me or not. Family is family.

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Hubbys parents got divorced and his mom recently got remedied, my kids will just call him by his name. Cuz their actual grandpa is still in their lives and I would just feel wrong for him to be grandpa also.

My parents are separated but my mom has a new borfriend that I do not like to he will not get any title. My dad is not and probably will never me part of my children's lives. He is a horrible person

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My 9 year old SD calls my mom nana. Been with her dad since she was 9 months old. She calls me by my name tho.

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My nephews call my MIL (who is their step-grandma) Gramma, and they call their biological paternal grandma, Gramma "last name", and I believe they call their maternal grandma, Gramma "first name" lol it's all sorts of confusing. They picked the names though and that's what I've decided to let my children do.

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My DH's mother remarried like 20 years ago. So even though he was older and doesn't call him dad, our kids call him grandpa. They call DH's dad papa.

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Mine is a little different of a situation, but my step dad raised me since I was 2, my biological dad was in the picture....but not as much as he should've been. They were both considered dad to me, and I call both of them dad to this day, so my child with call each of them whatever form of "grandpa" they choose :)

Edit: my mother divorced my step-dad whom I call "dad" years ago, and is now remarried. I call her new husband by his first name as I already have two dad's and don't need another. Me and him have had a rocky relationship and it's still kind of awkward, so I would prefer if my children call him by his name as well, but won't push the issue if they decide otherwise.

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I always called my step grandpa by his first name.

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My son calls my dad oppy. He cant say poppy correctly! Hahaaa! Hes his step grandad but hes amazing! We have nothing to do with my bio dad and never will. My step dad is my dad and i call him dad.

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I call my step dad , dad! My children call him Pop pop! I call my step mom LuLu her name is Lupe , kids also call her LuLu. We all love it!

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Granny. ?

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My son calls my step-dad Papa. I call him Dad. I don't talk to my biological anymore, and my son doesn't know him. Papa is his "real" grandpa as far as we are concerned ☺

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My LO will call him grandpa. I have never known my real dad and my step father has raised me since I was 7. To me he is my dad :)

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My son calls my stepdad grandpa because he has totally earned that title and they are really close. He calls my bio dad granddad when he actually gets to see him. He calls my stepmom by her name.

Edit: I also call(ed) my step grandparents grandma and grandpa. My son calls my stepdad's dad great grandpa.

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My son calls my stepmom grandma. She is no longer with my dad, but has raised me and is more of a mom to me than my own (my mom and I don't speak, no relationship with my son). My dads gf is Nona, her daughter had a son 6 months after me and that's what she wanted to be called so my son caught on. He calls my stepmoms bf by his first name for now, but I love him and wouldn't mind giving him a grandpa type nickname if he wanted it. My family dynamics are odd but I love them haha.

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My mother is very close with my step daughter and both my bio and step daughter call her "Mimsy" since she didn't like Grandma. My step dad is just called by his first name.

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My so calls his stepdad by his name

Edit: His mom calls him his dad but so doesnt like that so he just calls him by his name

Edit: just kidding... Apparently i cant read but lo is only 4 months but he'll most likely just call him grandpa

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My stepdad, who has been there since I was 6, is no longer married to my mom and hasn't been for over 10 years. He is still my stepdad because he helped raise and has been there for almost 30 years. My kids call him papaw and always will. His family is still my family as well.

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My step dad is called Pawpaw.

He raised me so he's my dad.

My birth father has a longtime gf that is called by her name. We don't see them often.

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He doesn't call them any thing different than what he'd call my biological parent. He also has a step dad and he calls him dad just like he does his biological father.

It's only different if u approach it that way. He 3 and knows he has 2 dads. He calls them dad. He has 3 grandfathers and for some reason they all prefer "pop-pop" so that's what he calls them. He doesn't know a difference between step and bio

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He will call him grandad

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My kids call my husband's step mom mama d and they don't know my step mom sooo....And they probably won't for a long time, if ever.

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I call my moms husband stepdad#5 not to his face or anything.

But I would never call him dad, I just use his name, child will do the same most likely, not close enough to the guy for it to matter I hope.

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My dd doesn't talk much yet, but we refer to all her grandparents as grandma/pa (first name). Maybe she'll end up giving them their own nicknames, who knows. But all three sets of grandparents love her very much. We wanted to be fair to all of them.

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I called my dads step mom grandma. Dd doesn't talk to dfs step mom (doesn't see them often) and at first I didn't want her to call her grandma but now it's her choice and when I talk to her I refer to her as her grandma

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To add to my comment, my real "father" isn't in my life at all so my step dad is all my son knows as papa!

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I have a step dad and my son calls him and knows him as papa.

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There's way too much divorce in my family so I have four parents and 8 grandparents that are still alive. I always did papa/grandma then their name. That's what my son will probably do. My MIL wants to be called Nana so that's at least a little different from the rest.

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My step dad- papi

SOs step dad- perow

SOs step mom- elá

Nothing unusual

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"Gramma". My 'step'-mother is my mom. My bio mother has only ever met dd1 and that was 14 years ago.

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My step dad will be called by his first name and my "step mum" they will never meet so that's not an issue,

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When my step mom was alive she just wanted to be called by her name. Which is what my siblings and I called her. My girls call my so's step mom by her first name. My older 2 girls call their dads step mom grandma and called his step dad grandpa.

All complicated lol.

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My step mom is grandma. My stepdad is papa. My ex-stepdad is abuelito

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My dh calls his step grandfather grandpa first name

His maternal grandfather grandpa first name

And his paternal grandfather grandpo nickname

He only calls his step grandfather grandpa out of respect for his grandma, but he doesn't like him and his mother only calls him by his first name.

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My grandpa was my moms step dad. Her dad left when she was very young. We grew up calling him grandpa. My cousins though called him by his name. It never made sense to me though, he raised our parents from a young age and was the only grandpa we had

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So far, my daughter calls my step-mom "gany" (granny). She doesn't know my biological mother.

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I have a step grandma, I call her Isabelle because my real grandma would have a fit if I called her anything other, but my kids call her grandma Isabel.

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macca95
Mikayla·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)

Oops, let me clarify.. I mean if your own parent remarries, what does your LO call your parents new husband/wife? :)

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Grandma first name.

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