Birthing positions.
For those who had a vaginal delivery, what position were you in when you pushed bubba out?
I have to agree with people saying you lose all control and instincts just take over..
With my first I was very relaxed on the bed laying in my back but slightly sitting up and that was easy for me..
With my second I was in the shower on all fours and I pushed him out like that and that was the only way I felt comfortable.. On all fours
I agree with gamermummy when it's time to push your body will tell you what to do you loose all control and primal instincts take over. Also each labour is different, squatting with ds was a lot easier but I couldn't do it with dd, my body just took over and I ended up in the easiest position to push her out.
First one on my back second on my knees on bed holding onto bedhead. I liked on my back better because midwife held a mirror and I felt more in control. Second birth I was staring at a wall and his shoulder got stuck and I freaked out cuz i couldn't see what was going on. I think this time I'll do it on my back again.
First two on my back - it was harder but I had no choice as my first I needed to be cut and second I needed monitoring which only picked up DD when I was on my back.
Third baby I knelt on the bed, leaning on/over the head of the bed - i feel that was my best birth, gravity helped and pushing was easier, no tearing or even grazes.
On my my back but with the head up so I was sort of sitting. Both times. I know it is the worst position as it closes of your birth canal, but personally it was the only way I could push correctly, tried standing, kneeling on the bed while hanging on the head part that was sat up, in those positions I just couldn't get that "push like your doing a poo" thing happening wasn't till I was upright laying on the bed I really felt the pushes working. Both my bubs where out in a few pushes once I sat/lay on the bed. Both times I have pushed for less then 15 mins.
Was pusing laying down for 1.5 hours then they got me Kneeling on the hospital bed resting my arms and head over the back of it( so basically just kneeling and using the bedhead as support) then when her head was out they got me to turn and lay on my back to push the rest of her body out. And that was with an epidural. I had no feeling in my legs so it was a mission to turn around without falling off the bed ?
Thanks ladies, these are great!
I'm hoping for a water birth, so if that goes ahead, great!
But I better get some ideas in case it doesn't lol.
Even with an epi you don't have to give birth on your back- that's the worst possible position to birth in generally as far as trauma to the body goes ?
I have always had the bed wound right up to sitting position, with the foot part lowered. So kind of like sitting position really but still supported. Did that with epidurals and also no epidural.
You ARE limited with an epi but lying down is not the only option.
My midwife and I had a talk today about how lying on your back is the worst position (obviously given that you're able to move around! lol) so I have no idea what kind of position I'd like to be in ? I guess it's something I'll figure out during labour, but I like to hear other people's responses :)
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