Lets talk. . . Sex in the bum

I have to do it before I have an orgasm cause otherwise i feel done and awkward and it's just painful... but if we do it before I finish I'm so in the mood it's a lot easier to do..

Love love love anal ? baby daddy didn't care for it as all he did with his ex was anal since she was loose as hell and he's below average. First toy was a butt plug and oh geez.

I was told by my cousin that if you ever find a girl who loves anal, put a f*** ing ring on that finger. ??

@riley I'm laughing so hard because that's how I've gotten things from my DH!

I tried once. I was all tense so nothing happen, I honestly don't think I'd enjoy it.

Lubricant that hole??

Butt plug?!

So much work and so many instructions for anal... ? I'll stick to the vag ?

Tried before with my ex and it wasn't too bad. Tried with my current SO and it hurts so bad when it tries to just get the head of his penis in. Guess it's bc my ex was small and my current is huge.

So no more anal for me

Cams is right. The anus isn't meant to be an entry point. It's an exit point. I'm not injuring my body now just to pay the consequences later. Noooo Sirrr.

I enjoy it a lot.

U have to lube him n ur bum up n when it come time to penetrate u ease him in n u have to help like keep ur hand on his d that way u r in control.

N ease ur was on like in n out n deep breathing helps...

Once u feel comfortable n the head is in its all easy from there

The best way joyable to start off is lay on ur side n him lay down behind u as well...then work ur way up one u get the hang of it...n to make it more enjoyable u can have fun with urself too...

There was one time that I tried it and I wasn't in too much pain. The other two times the pain was too much so now I just refuse.

I hate it. Only do it when I want to buy things he's totally against. Like a horse

We only do it once in a while, it's always scary when he sticks it in but as soon as it's in, it's really good. I don't let him do big strokes cause then it feels like I'm poopin? so we just do small strokes and yeah best climax ever

Just get f*cking sh*tfaced first and you'll be good ?

I love anal. I might be the odd one out who doesn't need lube.. a little spit goes a long ways.

I normally ask for it. SO will only do it if he's drunk.

I like it doggy style standing up or on the bed. On top is also good.

Just don't go *ss to mouth.

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Personally we only need my natural lubrication. I would recommend using lubricant or coconut oil for the first time though. Start slow, maybe a finger or small toy during oral or penetrative vaginal stimulation before busting down your back door. My favorite positions for it are reverse cowgirl or doggy and Df likes it while spooning. I feel like spooning and reverse cowgirl gave me the most control and best orgasms.

Whatever you do, even though its uncomfortable at first DO NOT TAKE IT OUT. If you want to keep going that is. If you take it out you have to start all over. Push it in while you breathe out and go slow. Take it easy and remind hubby if he shoves it in your butt he will get something shoved in hiss. Good luck and relax! Xx

@elizabeth when I'm pregnant I hate to swallow also. It always make me nauseous

@ Mrs don't worry when we were engaged my husband kept wanting me to try swallowing ??? so finally I said I would try. I got done and grabbed his shorts off the floor and threw up in them. When I was done he hugged me and said thanks for trying ??? later we found out I was expecting so it explained why my gag reflex was 20 times worse.

I didn't even know.it was possible to be on top and put it in your butt. Anal is not for me, but you learn something new every day. ???

For all of you that do this on a regular basis:

I'm imagining you walking around as old ladies, and poo just falling out of your bum.

A loose sphincter muscle later in life is not worth any back door action. No matter how pleasurable it is.

But hey, at least I'll save money on depends. ???

Guys I shat on my husband....he tried to do anul for 4 and a half years. I always said no! I finally gave in did my research and even pooed before going at it but idk it jus happened he said he never wants to ever do it ever again..and I cried....for hours....and hours....the humiliation is real...?

My husband has been wanting to try for a long time I can tell but he's actually just asked this week but I'm very pregnant and would prefer to wait until after baby. I'm scared to death it'll hurt or that will be all he will want.

So much lube. If you think you have enough, add more. Definitely tons of foreplay first but personally I can only enjoy anal until I "finish", if you will. As soon as I'm done I'm DONE, like get that thing out of me immediately. I do enjoy it occasionally though.

I absolutely hate anal lol. It's not for me but when I did do it definitely lots of lube and take it slow until you get the hang of it.

Good position for me is laying on my side if you want to try that. Have your partner kiss you in places you enjoy. SO kisses my back and it relaxes me 100%

I've never had the poop thing happen lol. Tons of lube and I suggest being in control, slowly moving yourself on him. It hurts bad first going in but once it's all the way in, it's more of a pressure rather than pain

I HATE ANAL. I have tried it so many times and it always feels like I'm constipated and the poo keeps coming back in. Not my cup of tea at all.

ETA I have never had poop come out hut the penis feels like a poo.

I've tried it and he can never get the tip in without me tensing up and freaking out. It hurts. I don't like it at all.

Try having an orgasm first. Have your SO massage you before hand. Lots of lube. A few drinks wouldn't hurt either.

I find me on my back is the most comfortable and easy position.

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Double pen for the win ??

If I'm planning on it I usually do an enema about 2 hours before hand just to make sure everything's all "cleaned out". Also butt plugs ranging from smaller to bigger using them before hand helps it not hurt along with lots of lube. If done properly it's really really nice lol

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I'm dying at the "ain't no fun unless the booty hole get some"!!

Lots and lots of lube. Take it slow. Use a smaller object (i.e. Vibrator) to loosen it up. And GO SLOW. A little at a time.

If you're worried about poop fragments just have him wear a condom lol

I don't mind it but I'm not chomping at the bit if it doesn't happen. It's really enjoyable when I'm on my period (but I'm 9 months preggo so that's long time gone lol).

Pp^ boyfriend's idea, he's always bringing it up so we tried it. No biggie. I know he'd try something weird if I asked him to. ?

@sierra He tells me no...but I'll creep up on him lol

Gonna piggyback off this question, did you ladies have to convince your husband or the other way around? I wouldn't be opposed to doing it but I think convincing my husband would be hard.

1/2 a bottle of Merlot, Coconut oil, and foreplay.

I was told by a user here, "Ain't no fun unless the booty hole get some."

I will literally never forget that comment ? but, I still haven't tried it because idk if i believe her! ?

I really enjoy anal. My favorite position is me on top. There's no in and out, so no sensation of pooping. Lots of lube and slow, then while using rocking hips motion you get the vaginal pentatraion sensation of gspot rubbing. As long as I'm not pregnant (and suffering from hemorrhoids) it's very enjoyable.

This is something that not everyone will be into but I guess I will fess up and tell you ladies that its something I actually really enjoy. The easiest position is spooning if your just starting out. You will need to be relaxed or it will not work. I used to have my husband stimulate my clit which relaxed me and made it far more enjoyable or just do it yourself.

The poop question always make me laugh. The pp's have that covered.

Only for special occasion lmfao

What's the best position for it?

Anal sounds terrible.

Blue, I was just thinking about you! But I wasn't expecting to say hi over a conversation about anal.???

Lots of lube. Looooots. Anal Ease is a good brand, helps with any pain, lasts a long time. Go to the bathroom before hand. Poop has never been an issue for us. I think the poop factor is way over done. It's not like the poop is just hanging out around your bumhole all the time.

The "pushback" helps a lot when it comes to actual penetration. Masterbate during it....uhm....and deep breathing. If you trust your partner, take it slow, and lube up it will hopefully go well. It make take a few separate tries too.