You're right, I have started to give up a little. The regimented bd was getting a bit tiring and I wanted to try take the pressure off dh a little too.

I think I'm holding out too much hope on my appointment next week though, as I just know they're going to say 'well try this for a few months then make another appointment to see me again'. I've tried to cover everything possible though (opks, vits for both of us, healthy eating, no alcohol, charting my cycles for the entire 19 months, SA test done etc), so that there is nothing else that they can get us to try, before actually doing something to help! Fingers crossed I really have thought of everything!!

Thank you xxduffxx. Good luck to you too. They say that you're more fertile for the few months after mc (I'm sure you've heard this already), so hopefully this is the case for you ?

I think after a certain amount of time u start to give up! We were trying for #1 for 16months and when we miscarried we tried to look on the positive side that atleast we could get pregnant!

I don't see why they won't give u clomid or something similar!! I wish u all the luck in the world huni every woman deserves to be a mother!!

I'm very sorry to hear about your mc xxduffxx. Have been ttc#1 for 19 months now and am looking forward to actually takin some action, rather than just waiting for something that just isn't going to happen on its own.

I just told my dr im having trouble on my own. with clomid u actually have to be on your menstrual to take it. my dr told me by the third day. :) im suppose to start taking mine as soon as this provera kicks in and mother nature finally comes :)

I got my bfp on my 3rd cycle of clomid once they had got the dose right but I also had 3cycles of a lower dose but had regular scans to check for ovulation!!

I am now bk on clomid (1st cycle) after a mc and I'm keeping my fx!!

I have pcos so don't ovulate on my own that is why I'm on clomid!

How long hav u been trying?!!