This is too hard...

I just need to vent. This past Tuesday I started having some pain and pressure when I peed. Being 8 weeks pregnant, I call my OB office to see if they want to see me. They said they will send a message to the nurse and she'll get back to me asap. No one called back and I was leaving work. I had started to have some lower back pain and an overall feeling that things just were not right. So I head straight to the ER. There's a hospital literally 3 minutes from my house so I go there even though my doctor works out of another office.