Hormones? Just over it? What's the difference?
Hormones? Just over it? What's the difference?
Okay ladies, this may end up being long, but I'm not having such a great time right now. My SO and I have been together for 5 years. We have two children and are expecting a third. Well, about five months ago my SO lost his job. He was completely burned out and just quit caring, which obviously showed, and caused him to get fired. That caused some tension as we had children to provide for and I was a SAHM so his was the only income. After discussing it, we switched roles and I went back to work and now he stays home with the kids. No big deal, everything was working out fine.
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No, if you ask me you're doing too much & the fact that he can sit home all day & watch you do everything while he's "sitting pretty" is a problem. He's a grown man that has two children in this world & a third one on the way. If him picking up a phone to find out where his property is located is too much for him to handle, then lord knows what he'll do in a more serious situation.
Tell him if he loved you he'd go & find a job so you don't have to bust your a$$ while pregnant, let alone pick up a phone & handle his business.
& you can keep the attitude you have. Hell you can even be a lil meaner.
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Yeah, you're being way to nice imo. A grown man who has three kids and a so who is also almost 30 should feel ashamed to not be providing for his family. If you've agreed for him to be a sahd that's one thing, but if you're struggling and want his help he needs to step up. Also, make him make his own phone calls. If he wants his property then he needs to do something about it. If taking care of your children and working full time is your job, then the least he can do is take care of himself.