Yeah.. I'm there. Been there ever since our second child, 7 years ago. It's a wonder my husband hasn't stepped out on me yet. But for some reason most recently, I've been into dresses and I feel really sexy and want to be all over my husband bc I think I look good and I feel good sooooo... Anyhow, I do understand.

I have this problem- zero sex drive. It's something that I frequently struggle with and it's a problem because we are TTC again.

One thing that helps me is to make a point to develop physical intimacy with my husband that doesn't necessarily have to lead to sex, but tends to. My therapist suggested just spending some time cuddling naked. Or giving massages.

I need that sort of intimate, but not sexual contact to help me feel sexy. I also need to feel good about myself. I've noticed lately that I am more likely to be interested if I feel pretty.

Get a sitter and date your hubby. I had trouble going from mom to wife and my hubby spent a lot of time romancing me. Just what I needed to feel sexy again.

My weight is a huge problem. I'm the heaviest I've ever been except fpr while i was pregnant. I will take your suggestions and try them! I do try to exercise and eat right but my husband eats horribly and it makes it so hard on me because he won't eat healthy things i cook.

My best advice is to get into making yourself feel sexy again, not to be funny but how's your

Weight ? I personally am not attracted

To

Myself and that makes me not want to engage ... I know that makes a huge difference ... It's ruff ... I know what your going through .. It gets better but you have to put effort into your self and it should fall back in line ... Also your hormones could be really playing a role in that .. How's your diet ? Drink more water ... Get up early and go for a walk and start from there.