She didn't get the job lol he said i didn't think she is qualified for the position! And i was thinking ummm he did the interview to see how she became after all these years! Mennnnn ? i was honest with him that i will leave if something else happened behind my back OR i will do the same, its easy, i can get in touch with one of my ex boyfriends or ex fiancé and i know that my ex fiancé thing makes him crazy jealous cuz he know the man lol i hope that your boyfriend do the right thing with her so you can relax and enjoy life my dear cuz i know how frustrating the situation could be.

@kiwi oh my god!!!! That is just all kinds of craziness!!!! How the hell do you deal with all of that?!?! I feel like I would lose my mind ??? thank God my SO only has one bm otherwise I don't think I could handle dealing with more! I never even wanted to date another guy with kids because the guys that I've been with that have kids always end up having a crazy bm! Or a "complicated living situation" but you can't help who you fall for ??‍♀️ the things we put up with for these men!!! That's good that most of them have moved on though! I wish my SOs bm would! And leave us the f**k alone!

Lol ok grab ya popcorn this a crazy one for you! I went to middle school with his first BM they have a daughter she is now 11. She ended up moving in next door to me at the apts i was living at so that made things even more awkward because she thought i knew who he was the entire time they were together (6 years). Which i didn't i might add! Ok so she gave me problems I have his second child also a girl who is now 5. She tried to fight me while i was pregnant an when i moved in with him after the baby she tried to fight me again. Like i will never fight over any guy no matter how much love i have. We broke up while i was pregnant and that was when the third BM came along it was a friend of his she was supposedly GAY! But now he has a boy with her that is 5, three months younger than my daughter. I was mad yes, she tried to be petty a lil when he brought the baby around to visit but never any type of altercation or exchange of words. He always put her in her place as a drunk one night stand so she didn't come for me at all even though we had briefly parted. Then everything was ok for a while i ended up cheating and i told him so he felt like he had to pay me back nd did the same. Ok i give him that lol I mean don't dish out what you don't want to receive. Anyway that's where the fourth BM comes in at. That b**** was a spoiled lil wannabe rich b**** from chicago with no type of family morals, gave him all type of hell but he wouldn't part from the stupid lil b**** because he was so caught up nd her looks. Mixed girl with green eyes nd big breast. Cant cook, clean, was nasty, fuqkd up attitude. You name everything you would hate to be she was it! We literally moved to florida from mississippi to get away from her lol. They boy they have together is about to be 3 in October. She finally found a bf but says he shouldn't have anything to do with help raising his child because its not his responsibility even though they are together?. Ok so first BM married now, third just had her second child a few months ago, nd the last one is just lost. Im the first with two of his kids so i guess that means something lol. But thats the PG-13 version i could write a book lol??

@lecole that's what I think as well I really do think she would try to do something to try and hurt me knowing I'm pregnant. She said his sister can come with us so we'd feel more comfortable but I still just don't feel good about it. The boys are 7,6 and 2, the 2 oldest are old enough to tell her what they think. But she's acting like her kids being around me and my kid is an option. Sorry hunny but it's not ? she doesn't have to like it but I'm going to be around

Yeah I feel like she'll have something up her sleeve lol in most cases if they sound crazy they are crazy. There's no reason for her to meet you if you ask me. That's a past situation. I could see maybe talk over the phone or anything. But actually sitting down and meeting is not necessary. How old are the kids ? They can be the judge to the mom on if they're ok with them being around you since they have to be around you regardless

@kchase WOW! Just wow ??‍♀️ that baby mama sounds legitimately crazy!! I don't know how you have put up with her still after all these years!! But that's good that you guys have full custody and she can't do anything to keep your SO from his kid! My ex's BM was like her! Maybe not as crazy but was always claiming to be pregnant by him, broke into our house a few times, showed up at my job! But he still ended up getting her pregnant again ???‍♀️ but yea I think my SOs bm is just doing this out of pure jealousy hopefully they figure out all they're doing is hurting the kids by keeping them from their dad!!

@lecole yep that sounds exactly like his bm! She sent me a message saying that he disses his kids to be with me and never goes to see them which wasn't true at all he'd go whenever she wasn't home to see them and then she told him he wasn't welcomed over there and he f**ked up and started a new family so just pretend like he doesn't have those kids anymore but has no problem taking his money ? I don't want to be involved but the only way she'll let the kids be around us and our son is if she meets me ? I feel like she's crazy enough to try and do something to harm me and my baby out of jealousy

I have one of those. Even though we have full physical and legal custody of my step son. I've been in his life since he was 6 months old. He's going to be 11 when this one is born ... been dealing with it for a very long time now! My husband and I have a 6 year old son together, 1 angel baby, and now this one on the way. The fact that we have FULL physical and legal custody should tell you something about her as a mother. She has 4 children with 4 different fathers. She doesn't have custody of any of her children. She's majorly bipolar and refuses to take her meds. One day I'm a c you next Tuesday (of you know what I mean) and the next day she texting me asking about how I'm feeling and how the baby is doing. Sounds like your baby momma drama is pure jealousy. The only people she is hurting by saying he can't see his kids, is his kids! I hate people who use their children as pawns! Drives me insane. I hope she grows the eff up!!!

I say the less your involved the better unless she brings you in it. Then do like pp and smack her ??

Yeah I hate the bitter baby moms. My fiance has one son who is 7 and time the mom found out I was pregnant she threatened with child support and said she was going to have him put in jail bla bla then continues to throw my 2 girls in it saying he'd rather play dad to mine vs theirs which is only true because she makes it to where he can't see his son when he wants to. He can't call/text his son. She uses money as a way for him to see him and if he doesn't have the money he doesn't see him. So messed up. He loves his first born more than ever but he's also excited to have his first Daughter but his baby mom is making him feel guilty for showing happiness?

@non26 that's what I'm thinking as well!!! It's just a scheme to get him back or at least to break up with me. Acting like a psycho didn't get him back so now she's trying by "doing the right thing". That's what I think at least ??‍♀️ but I am pregnant and hormonal so who knows haha. Omg!!!! Are you serious?!?! I would be pissed if I found that out!!! Even if she does mean nothing to him that's still no reason to have her working there! My SOs ex girlfriend works at his job so I know how you feel. They were working together before I met him and they work at the airport so running into each other is not likely but it still bothers me ?

Ummm i think she tried to drag him to her at 1st by making him to choosing between her kids and you, but because it didn't work she went the other way. It doesn't have to be true i am just saying what i think. And there a lot of crazy women out there when they think that they about to lose the man forever they act crazy. When i got married i went with my husband overseas for years, after we finally came back his ex girlfriend knew and contacted him ? she tried to become close to him to make it easy to do what she want. My husband is a partner in a small business so she asked him to hire her!!!! She wants to work for him can you believe this! I didnt knew anything until he did an interview for her! I was super angry and we had a big fight, his excuse was that he was ok to hire her cuz she means nothing to him! Ok what about her intentions? Why you open away for her to be around you?! Why he hide it from me?! I made him a promise if i ever found out something like this later i would leave him but i will ruin her life first lol

@laced my first is his fourth ? but thankfully they have the same mom so I only have one psycho baby mama to deal with ?

Thank goodness all my kids dad's i had there first ! Haha

@adyal wow that's terrible!!! I really don't get why baby mamas can be so crazy like that! How don't they realize that the only ones getting hurt through this are the kids!!!! But that's what I've agreed too is giving this a chance. We discussed it and we agreed to give this a chance and take things slow and see how it goes. But as soon as she starts acting crazy that's it!

@nish thankfully none of that has had to happen at least not yet. But I will definitely slap her a** if it comes to it as long as I'm not pregnant ? he just hasn't really dealt with her and they keep communication to a minimum. When she starts acting crazy he just doesn't have anything to do with her. But that's also a concern of mine is her convincing the kids not to like me. I don't understand how people can be so cruel sometimes ?

@cacur ugh if only everyone could do things like that! This girl wants to make everything so damn difficult!

My husband's ex goes through cycles every year where for a while he can see the kids no problems, then my kids and I become a problem and we arent allowed to be around, even though I have never done anything to her but put her in her place. After she says we can't be around she then goes on fb to talk crap about how he is worthless and doesn't love his kids. We had to completely drop her and just hope the kids want to know us when they get older because she has made it difficult to have a relationship with them. I would say give her a chance, just one and see how it goes. But don't let her disrespect you. Maybe she finally has a new man or something to make her not so crazy. I'm the type to give everyone a chance, but if your gut is telling you no, then listen to it and discuss with your SO.

she use to cause problems but I made it very clear that I would beat her tf up. I had to slap her then she started to cool down. I don't disrespect her therefore I will not be disrespected, if it's not about the baby do not contact my man. It was really bad at first she use to call all the time saying she's gonna hurt herself and the baby bc he doesn't want to be with her. Long story short , she's doing better now. Still kind of envious of our relationship, but she understands. Your boyfriend has to lay down law and get her to understand that what she's doing isn't okay. I just hope she doesn't raise their baby not to like me ?

My oldest is from previous relationship and let me tell you I have NO idea how there is such thing as a crazy baby mama. The less I have to deal w his dad the better. My husband deals with the visitations. Well all communication! Lol

He isn't crazy but he's too stubborn to deal w.

@kinara @adyal my SO has 3 kinds with his baby mama they've been broken up for around 2 or 3 years but they still were living together because she lives with his family but now that we're together and we live together and we're having a baby together she told him a few weeks ago to pretend that he doesn't even have those kids and he's not welcome around there no one wants him there and not to even ask about the boys or anything so he kept his distance until things calmed down and now yesterday all of a sudden she sends him a message saying that he can see the boys whenever he wants take them out whatever spend time with them because she realized that it's just hurting the boys more than anyone and if I'm going to be around them that she wants to meet me I don't know if I'm thinking too much into this but for the last few months she has been nothing but problems and drama and now all of a sudden she has a change of heart but I think she has a hidden agenda what do you ladies think???

@the-kings you're so lucky!

I do too

Ugh I do. What's going on??

No. Thank gosh!!!