Another Baby
So My Daughter Is 13 Months And I Really Wanna Try For Another Baby?! Is That To Soon Or Those Who Already Have Multiple Kids Would Yu Recommend It?
I don't know if you've already checked with your doctor or not but I would ask if they/the hospital you will deliver at does VBAC. I have heard alot of ladies say that their doctor/the hospital will not do it. I have low lying placenta right now (FX it moves away from my cervix) but it is a very responsibility that we may be looking at a c section for this baby. I am going to start looking into it here soon. Just in case. I'm a planner.
I Had A C Section With My Daughter And I'm Hoping With My Next To Have A VBAC
I found out I was pregnant with my second when my son was only 10 months old. It was tough towards the end of pregnancy just because I had no energy what so ever lol , and after it was hard the first 2-3 months just getting into a solid routine..but let me tell you my two boys are best friends and they love each other so much so for me it was totally worth having them close in age!
I was very lucky to have two fairly quick and easy vaginal births. I had very little swelling and basically sat on ice packs for the first few days which I think helped heal everything quickly. I did have a lot of bleeding, fist sized clots and retain placenta with my second which was a crazy scary experience.
For us it has been amazing. Our boys are so close and have so much love for each other. I know that one day soon it will turn into fighting and arguing but the bond that they have is wonderful. There are hard moments too but the good always out ways the bad. The first month and a half was a huge learning curve and obviously I can only speak from my experience but I would think that it would probably be that way for most people. Older kids are naturally more independent but our first loves helping and playing with his brother which has been really great also.
Thank You! I Was More Curious About Others Experiences With Two Baby's That Close In Age... Just In Case I Conceive Faster Then I Have Planned
Well you see it's not likely for me to convince right away like it happen to you guys it took me 2 1/2 years and 3 Rounds of clomid to get my baby girl
Mine are 18 months apart and my second pregnancy wasn't bad. More hip pain but I'm pretty sure that would have happened either way because I weighed more this past time around. And my oldest was old enough to want to help out and understand to be sweet and careful (mostly?) around the new baby. So I don't think you're crazy, that's a good age gap!
It is definitely different for everyone. It's something that you should discuss with your doctor. My doctor is very well aware that we want a large family and I trust her 100% to get us there safely and healthy. That being said our first was born 4-12-15, second 11-15-16 and our third is due 2-23-18. Yes symptoms are different with every pregnancy. But my SIL just had an 11 year wait time between her 2nd and 3rd and her 3rd was miserable so a short time vs a long time in between may not make that much a of a difference in discomfort. Besides complications that have absolutely nothing to do with how quickly we are having our children my pregnancies have for the most part been absolutely wonderful. Only you can know and decide what's right for you. I wish everyone the best if luck on their journeys and lots of baby dust! If you ever have any questions or concerns please feel free to message me directly!
I think every woman is different but Drs generally ask you wait for 18 months. I was told I absolutely cannot be pregnant for at least 2 years because of a traumatic delivery. I think it's best women wait for their bodies to heal and their systems get back on track but that point could be different for everyone. :)
Oh I Had No Idea Some Places Or Drs Wouldn't Do It