Help! Hubby and I disagree :-(
Help! Hubby and I disagree :-(
I'm almost 12 weeks with our 3rd child although its my 2nd pregnancy (first pregnancy was twins) I want to find out the gender dh doesn't! We did with our twin girls. What should I do? Anyone else in the same situation? btw he is extremely stubborn and I know he won't change his mind.
Candice ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I know I said how can we decorate the nursery? He said black :-\
deleted-user·
My dp doesn't want to either. I'm even thinking (not that I would) to have a secret scan!!
I hope that when it comes to it he caves and wants to know. Cause when I'm asked there's only one answer ... Yes yes yes yes yes!!! x
deleted-user·
You can know and he can wait!
deleted-user·
Since there's no compromising tell him.you will find out alone, decorate the nursery neutral & he can find out when the baby comes. The experience is fun when shared though hopefully you two will compromise.
deleted-user·
With DD we weren't going to find out, then I started wanting to know as the 20 week sono got closer. When we went into the room we were he said "no" I was saying "yes" so the tech did all the medically required things and by the end asked if we wanted to know. I just looked at him and after seeing all the other baby parts he had completely caved and was dying to know. My hubby is so stubborn too, good luck!
deleted-user·
We had the same dilemma. We already have a boy and a girl. I told him if it's important to you we won't find out by here is my list of why I want to. At 14 weeks he said "let's find out." hope you guys come up with a solution you both can live with.
deleted-user·
My bf wants to know and I want to wait. He can't keep a secret so we will not ne finding out. I didn't find out with my other 2 so why this time? The suprise is so worth the wait. I was convinced my son was a girl and as soon as the Dr saw the head he said that's a boy face and sure enough it was.
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I would have them tell me and not him.
Candice ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I really want to have the nursery done before the baby comes, but now a part of me wants to wait too lol! I want to paint the nursery green I'm thinking that's a good color for boy or girl