I really want to have the nursery done before the baby comes, but now a part of me wants to wait too lol! I want to paint the nursery green I'm thinking that's a good color for boy or girl

I would have them tell me and not him.

My bf wants to know and I want to wait. He can't keep a secret so we will not ne finding out. I didn't find out with my other 2 so why this time? The suprise is so worth the wait. I was convinced my son was a girl and as soon as the Dr saw the head he said that's a boy face and sure enough it was.

We had the same dilemma. We already have a boy and a girl. I told him if it's important to you we won't find out by here is my list of why I want to. At 14 weeks he said "let's find out." hope you guys come up with a solution you both can live with.

With DD we weren't going to find out, then I started wanting to know as the 20 week sono got closer. When we went into the room we were he said "no" I was saying "yes" so the tech did all the medically required things and by the end asked if we wanted to know. I just looked at him and after seeing all the other baby parts he had completely caved and was dying to know. My hubby is so stubborn too, good luck!

Since there's no compromising tell him.you will find out alone, decorate the nursery neutral & he can find out when the baby comes. The experience is fun when shared though hopefully you two will compromise.

You can know and he can wait!

My dp doesn't want to either. I'm even thinking (not that I would) to have a secret scan!!

I hope that when it comes to it he caves and wants to know. Cause when I'm asked there's only one answer ... Yes yes yes yes yes!!! x

I know I said how can we decorate the nursery? He said black :-\