DH already talking about another baby...
Ladies... I need help he is already talking about another. I only ever wanted one child. ? he said we can wait, but I don't want to endure pregnancy again I was miserable. Also my heart is full and fulfilled by my daughter.
My significant other hasn’t been to one appt. am I crazy for being bothered about it? I’m already depressed I’m having another baby. I didn’t even want anymore. I feel like I don’t have the support I need.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
Strippers. How do you all feel about your SO/hubby going to the strip club? I honestly have jealousy issues and I dont approve of it for my SO, as he already doesn't like too go. But i feel like if he wants to see women stripping on poles, I can be his own personal stripper. Lol ? I am just curious to see what others feel and think!
Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀ Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄
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I'm in the opposite boat. I'm dying to get pregnant again right now lol. Pregnancy and labor and delivery were the most amazing moments of my life and I can't wait to do it again. My husband however, wants to wait a long time for our next. Of course it's not ideal for me, but having a baby is SUCH a big decision that we need to be 100% agreed on before it happens. Explain that to him.
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I think you should have at least 1 more so your little one has a sibling, I'm an only child and grow up all by myself and it was pretty lonely till today I still wish my mom could have another one she's still young 42...my point is, it feels pretty lonely you have no one to play with ?...but obviously is up to you but I agree with the rest of the ladies give it time to re-think about it
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Our first was an oops, and my god it was the best oops ever. However I had a horrible first pregnancy and we both said for sure one and done. And then our second boy decided to join us against all odds when my first was only 4.5 months ? you know what they say, when you want to make God laugh tell him your plans. It’s been tough but I wouldn’t trade him for the world. I’m so glad my first has a sibling. Give yourself some time mama, you never know what God has in store.
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After I had my first (daughter) 7 years ago.. I NEVER thought I'd have another. I thought well I'd love to have a son but you can't choose so... lol.. my mom ALWAYS told me.. you're not done, you'll have a little boy one day. Well she passed away August of 16 and unexpectedly I found out I was pregnant that following February. Guess what! It was a boy! And even though I was terrified because I'd only ever wanted one kiddo, my mom knew I would have another. Being a mom was her favorite thing, and it turns out it's mine too!! Just had baby boy and we actually want to try for another next year. NEVER thought I'd hear myself say that, lol I mean it only took 7 years to have another ? you have all the time in the world to think about it, just saying.. life is crazy and has a way of changing your mind about things you never thought you would.
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Wait it out and think about it like all the pp are saying. It’s no fun to but your body through something so tough if you really don’t want to BUT if you change your mind, as an only child myself I think your l/o will appreciate a sibling because there are so many things I’ve had to go through alone.
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Mine is the same way. He wants another ASAP it terrifies me. I didn’t mind pregnancy but labor was awful for me
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Hubby and I both wanted one before pregnancy ... and pregnancy was HARD... and difficult delivery. But I immediately wanted another again and he's still at one! We have decided to revisit the subject in 7 months when it would be time to even consider trying so maybe just give yourself time to see how you both honestly feel.
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I would wait. You might just change your mind in a year or two or maybe even three. If my hubby was talking about another right now it would be a flat out no too lol. We have decided to be done at 2 though.
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Just wait. It doesnt need to be decided now. Maybe say you will revisit in two years for example. Life doesnt have to be definate!
I hateeeeee pregnancy. It makes me miserable. But, I have ended up with three kids!