That's too many days to go without a kiss . There's must be something more deeper than just being upset with you . You know exactly what to do . Questions questions questions .

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Girl sit that man down and confront him!! If he wants to act like man that he is you guys are going to talk this out because that is what adults in a relationship do. Talk things out. He needs to tell you what's wrong with him and he needs to know how you feel about it so you guys can move forward. I would grab him by the ear and sit him in a chair until he hears me out and wouldn't let him get back up without telling me why he thinks it's okay to act how he is acting and why he is acting such way!!! I wouldn't let it go another day if I were you. Talk to him!

Wow he's acting like a child! I could see doing that like after a fight for one day but I mean seriously ... And not even saying I love you ... Do you guys talk out your problems? Or do you guys just let them go unresolved? I would think all that would end when you guys work out the problem!

My SO and I never kiss lol

Aww wow so sorry OP that's so sad? and pp that was way insensitive.

When i say ill do me I'm usually saying basically I'm focusing on myself so have fun being an ass. Even though you guys have been having some issues it's not the time to be acting selfish. Especially denying you any affection that's just petty and hurtful. I would wait till the kids are in bed, TV off, phones down all distractions away and just let it all out about how you're feeling and try and come to some sort of understanding. Then maybe have a cuddle infront of a movie or something.

? so sorry op that is heartbreaking. My dh isn't naturally affectionate but if I ask or initiate he wouldn't refuse, and it would be incredibly hurtful if he did. He needs to know that's not acceptable in a relationship. And while talking things out is necessary sometimes a step in the right direction is to just hold hands or have a little kiss and snuggle- physical communication is important too and can make a discussion easier.

He's obviously feeling bothered by what you guys are arguing about. Don't cry for kisses and I love you's, sit down with him and talk out the issue before it turns into something bigger

Honestly, I would just cry. Cry. Let it out and let him see that he has hurt your feelings.

Y'all are having an argument and he can't kiss you for 5 days or tells you he loves you? Very mature. ?

@baeby

Uhm that was rude, even If you were just playing, OP feelings are really hurt.

So now isn't the time to try to "lighten the mood" by saying some cheesy tacky shat like that.

And OP. I'm sorry he's treating you this way. But I would try not to show emotion. Although it could make it worse. But if he wants to play the Petty game, then let the game begin.

Yikes.

Well when my husband decided to do him it basically meant eff me. And its been this way for long enough that there is absolutely nothing left but the legal paperwork keeping us together. I hope its not the same for you since for me it's been bad.

Funny but reading your post and comments brings up the feelings I try so hard to contain

@baeby I don't know if that was suppose to funny or not, but that comment was just annoying and rude imo. By the way it doesn't stink.

@ria, it really sucks right now. He's not the type to really open up about his emotions but there's no way in hell I'm just going to let it be. Like I said, he's never acted out like this before.

Thanks for all the support and advice. It's very much appreciated.

ETA: @leslie, he's NEVER denied me like this before. It's the first time it's ever happened and I'm clueless on what to do

He shouldnt deny you affection on purpose, that is just cruel. How is not being affectionate being him, unless he was always like that.

My bf naturally isnt an affectionate person, but thata just how he was raised. He is affectionate once in a blue moon and I get all giddy when he is.

"Do me" means like I don't care..I'm just going to leave you alone and worry about myself..so for him to even say that means he's upset about something...I'm sorry op..I wish he would tell you literally what's bothering him so you two can fix it and move pass it.

Does your breath stink

You need to ask him what he means by that and why doing you means you can't kiss your so ?

Well guys.... I totally forgot that he said he was going to "do him" or "act like him".... Whatever the fack that means. He bought me home some beautiful roses since today is our anniversary. (He likes to celebrate it monthly) I forgot since I didn't pay attention to the date and he didn't even seem to care that I did ?

Anyway, I told him the roses are beautiful and I thanked him. His response was that "it's our anniversary, but I'm still going to act like me." I don't know what to think or do. I just want to CRY. I'm holding back so hard right now....

Straight out ask him what's his deal. Denying affection is hurtful and petty imo. I don't mind a person needing a little space but that doesn't mean you get to literally ignore me. Children pay attention to that stuff too..just sayin

I don't think he realizes how much it hurts me. I'm not sure if it's intentional or not. I sure hope it's not though. I would never not give him a kiss regardless of our disagreements. ?

I used to do stupid things like that to hurt my SO when I was mad. I didn't realize how bad it was. Now no matter how made we are we kiss or say I love you. At the end of the day I love him and don't really want to hurt him.

Been there it hurt at first I'm sorry you're hurting.

I am definitely going to have a talk with him when he gets home from work tonight. He's never acted like this before and it's hurting me so much. I'm crying as I type this. It's so unfair.

You should definitely ask for an explanation and decide what to do from there. I'm sorry he's treating you this way, people need to be kinder to each other.

Nellie

Wow! How heartbreaking! I would sit down and ask him why he's acting like this because it's seriously hurting your feelings!