TMI.... Maybe?
Are there ladies out there that pleasure themselves and enjoy it?? Lately sex hasn't been doing me any justice and my SO can't bring me to finish. Its been really irritating and upsetting me. ? I have a toy (the rabbit) but I don't enjoy doing it myself and my SO starts doing for me than ends up letting me do it myself. Lol I guess I should start doing it when im alone?? I don't know.. And all the positions me and SO been trying are just so uncomfortable as I am 20 weeks along. Any advise how to spice up the mood?
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Yes thank you @emmy and everyone else for all the advice. And I am going to be looking into getting that wand!
But my suggestions? Not be graphic or anything but:
-Find a toy that provides clitoral stimulation. From my undestanding the rabbit does both (which is fine for solo, but you're wanting time with hubby.)
-Start off with the toy. You use it and then your husband uses it on you. Only do this for a short time, no need to get greedy.
-Then move to your husband. Oral on him and oral on you, whatever floats ya'll's boat. It is good to share since your husband was nice enough to spend all that time on you.
-Since you're 20 weeks I would definitely recommend ?. Also, missionary with tons of pillows placed under your hips will angle you to keep bump out of the way... and feels great.
-Use the toy while ya'll do it for clitoral stimulation. It will feel amazing for him and amazing for you.
-Alternate. DTD with the extra stimulation from the toy and then turn it off.
-All that pregame will have you ready to O so much easier since you are sufficiently prepped down there.
-Don't use the toy every time with your husband. I've found that using it as a special occasion will already condition you to "regular sex" and make it even more amazing.
Lastly, the toy I suggest?
The Original Hitachi Magic Wand. You won't regret it, promise. Go for the real deal on Adam&Eve.com.
*Also, I don't know if I'll be back on tonight. D*mn this.
It sounds like he's selfish, and you get in your head a little bit (getting frustrated that it's taking too long).
You could try...
Making him finish you first before any penetration.
Investing in a bullet-type toy to use during intercourse.
Getting yourself started and ready, then invite him to join.
No. He isn't really into looking up different things to try. Just wants me to give him more foreplay than he gives me. And I alwayssss tell him I need more foreplay if he really wants to get me in the mood. I can make myself climax in like 2 minutes with my toy, it works wonders. I think im gonna give the faucet a try and I have a good showerhead but I don't really like it. I am gonna see if he would like to try to use my toy during sex. Cause once he get his finish, he can literally just go straight to bed. ?
I always found masterbating more pleasing than sex personally. Simply because only us know the right spots in our bodies and how to get there effectively. I do love sex too but its not something I want atm as it turns me off being pregnant but yeah definitely would please myself from time to time.
Its not him being the problem its me sadly. I get irritated after a while and just end the sex. ?
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@Leah yes!!! Always. Im all for clit stimulation. My SO will do it at times as well, but it doesn't happen everytime we dtd