PLEASE HELP ME DEAL....
With my fussy baby!!!! Shes 2 weeks old today, and the past 2 nights, she stays up from 8pm and wont go to bed until 3am. Between that time, she eats multiple times (once every 20 mins,) gets multiple diaper changes and we try over and over to swaddle her and lay her down. She might "sleep" for an hour tops before she fusses and throws a fit. Last night, she was up til 330am. Woke up at 6am. Went back to bed, woke up at 8am, went back to bed, woke up at 10am and shes been up ever since. Just fussing. I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG!! First time parents trying to deal with an overly tired, fussy baby. Any advice or wisdom??!!
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I got a book from my SIL called 'the baby whisperer solves all your problems' and it covers sleep. I have 3 SILs and 2 uses this book. The two that used it have great sleepers (4 kids all together) and the one that didn't use the book still has problems with her 8'year old. Maybe something worth looking in too.
My aunt is an ob rn, she taught me to put him to bed later st night when we would want to get to sleep. I started our evening routine early, but I won't do books until around 10:30-11. I'm also trying to keep him up during the day when I can. @ May- this is work, but we were made for it!
Kamila went through the same for about two nights I really thought it was colics she wouldn't cry just fuzz and squirm so I got a heating pad placed it on her belly and she's been good ever since (they sell them at Walmart in the baby section) whatever it is I hope she gets better poor baby ???
What time should "bedtime" be for a newborn?? Shes been napping since 645pm. Its 815pm now. Next time she wakes up, we are gonna do a "bedtime routine" and hoping shes down for the night by 11pm.
To me the fussing and leg kicking sounds more like gas. My son and now my 1 week old daughter both went through this were they are "working something out" whether it be poop or gas and it causes a lot of fussiness but not crying. I lay her on my tummy, rub her tummy or do like bicycle leg exercises and that helps. When she is older we will use gripe water & gas drops they worked miracles with our son.
I thought she might be going through a growth spurt and thats why she is wanting more feedings.
My son did the same thing too! ? Is it possible she is going through a growth spurt? I know whenever my son was his sleep was even worse. I swear he only slept every 1 1/2 to 2 hours non stop. I was nursing so as soon as he fell asleep and I put him back down he was waking up and it was honestly miserable. I never figured out why and I have never heard of "the witching hour" as a FTM I thought it was normal!
May- I'm having a hard time too. These past two nights have been so rough. He just screams when we change him and screams unless I'm nursing or bottle feeding. I honestly fear tonight bc I have to let my DH get some sleep for work. I'm going to try a bit more of a routine- baby massage w calming lotion 3-4 books and family cuddles. Of course- he's fine during the day. It's just so startling and jarring for us ftms to get woken up over n over again. He's wanting to eat every hour at night. Good luck for you guys tonight. As PP said you're doing a great job. Just don't feel like u can mention all of this to Layla's dr! Xoxo
Yea I agree with the day and nights confusion. I'm trying right now to "teach" that. I only put her in her rock n play at night so she knows it's bed. I also just let her "b*tch" (one cry out then stops) and just rock the sleeper a couple of times when I know she was just fed, to let her know I don't just pick her up immediately at night...I also feed formula to though so I know they tend to stay fuller a little longer. Just trying to teach a routine? I also open all the blinds and have plenty of lights on during the day.
Hope she calms down for you! I know I'm pretty sleep deprived too right now ?
Yup, definitely sounds like witching hour. That's good though cause colic is no fun! As long as all her needs are met it means you are doing a great job so just keep calm and keep doing what youre doing and know that what you described sounds like perfectly normal babyness to me. I keep telling my husband the same thing. Youre doing just fine mama. Feel free to message me if you need anything. My first child was a very very difficult baby, so I'm well prepared. ?
I dont think its colic. She doesnt really cry, its just fussing, and leg kicking. Plus this isnt typical behavior from her. I dunno if we did something different these past few nights, or what. But its very discouraging to not know why your baby is upset. I do however think she doesnt know her days and nights yet...
My first used to scream bloody murder from 3-7am for a few weeks. Nothing would comfort her. I honestly just remained calm, breathed and laid her on my chest while I sat on the couch. They call it purple crying or witching hour. No real solution just stay calm and know it'll get better.
My son (1 week 4 days) does the same thing around the same time (my family calls it a "witching hour"). More than likely it's tummy issues mixed with a sleep/wake cycle that hasn't developed yet. My first son had GERD and he would not sleep unless he was in his rocker or swing, anywhere his head was slightly elevated. Last night we put the little one in the rocker and he slept much better. I have other tips and tricks from my first son (he was SUPER fussy/colic) if the rocker/ swing doesn't work. Newbornhood is a tough time as my husband is finding out.. this is his first as well. Feel free to message me if you need to.
My little babydoll cries every time after she eats. She squirms around pretty much the whole time she sleeps too and wakes up multiple times fussy. I’m guessing it’s just gas but this mamma is exhausted. I’m the only one who wakes up with her at night and it’s hard. I hate when I feel myself getting frustrated because I love her and I know it’s not her fault, but lord knows I underestimated how exhausted I would be. I try to savor every moment she’s not fussy, which is not often. I miss sleep 😫
Went to bed last night with burning fire coming up my throat, took like two hours to fall asleep, woke up throwing up at 12, laid in bed uncomfortably again fighting heartburn & up again since 5.. Worst night yet with this pregnancy.. 😞
Mommies, thoughts on picking up or coddling a newborn every time they cry?
My baby’s been fussy the last couple of days and me or my husband will pick her up every time she cries and she’s getting used to that I’m assuming. I just don’t want her to be fussy and she cries like someone’s murdering her.
So last night we all went to bed healthy and happy. This morning I woke up to my baby non responsive and passed away this afternoon. I fell asleep breastfeeding. Which ive done a million times. Ladies. I know how tiring you get. I cannot stress this enough. Dont sleep with your babies!!! Kache maddox espey. I love you more than life. You were loved. My first boy my love.
So....Layla is still sleeping?!
It's been over 12 hours. She hasn't woke up! Not once! She used to sleep like this but not lately. I actually woke up concerned, once I saw what time it is. She's ok, I saw her moving, but I'm like, "Huh?" Lol
Your baby is most likely too young for a routine. It's definitely hard and exhausting but you just need to follow her cues right now as far as feeding and sleeping goes. It does sound like there is some gas involved. Have you tried pumping her legs and rubbing her belly? I have heard great things about the Windi for relieving gas in babies if you haven't tried it yet!