What is the sweetest thing....
What is the sweetest thing....
Your significant other has said or done for you during this pregnancy?
What is the sweetest thing....
Your significant other has said or done for you during this pregnancy?
My husband told me once, (he struggles to make friends because he has Aspergers) "how awesome is it that your actually making my best friend right now". It was only small but it makes me smile all the time. He chats about all the things they are going to do together ??
Mine has let me buy whatever I decided I want to buy. He knows it's cathartic for me to do so otherwise I get stressed out about our daughter's heart stuff and being away from home. He's been just amazing.
For my birthday in Feb, he went to the store and bought all my favorite foods and snacks. Brought me home yellow roses (yellow is my favorite) and chocolate covered strawberries.
He got up early one morning and made me banana nut bread after I woke him up in the middle of the night to tell him I was craving it.
He worked tirelessly to remodel our kitchen and build a new bedroom in our basement and let me decorate the nursery however I wanted it.
So many things but the top ones:
-Making the babies cot himself, spending every evening working on it after work and buying the wood and trying to get it perfect.
-When he told me he would buy me a personal trainer when I was down about losing weight after the baby of that would help me.
-Going out and coming back with a little tub and lots of pedicure items and doing my feet for me!!
-Telling me I had to spend money on myself for a good new maternity bra and took me for a fitting and paid for them all as he said I need to take care of myself and not feel uncomfortable ? I love this man?
My husband yells at me when I try to deep clean anything. He takes over and does it for me ☺️ although I don't get the satisfaction of doing it myself it'll do ??
I teach Special Ed Kindergarten, so I'm only feet all day. My husband ordered me a new pair of shoes for when my feet start to swell!
My 11 year old is on spring break she was gone from Friday till I picked her up Wednesday. My husband took me out for a romantic fun time every day. Rubbed me down every night until I went to sleep I love him ??. He can be sweet more than he get on my nerves lol
Aww! I love reading all these supportive hubby posts!! I am too very blessed with an amazing husband! If only there was a way to truly thank them for all their hard work and extra love during pregnancy! My husband cleans for me, holds me after a long day and always makes sure I'm comfortable, happy, and feeling beautiful.
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My love brought me home fried chicken and potato wedges from my favorite chicken place today!! AND he had flowers ???
When SO went shopping for the remaining baby stuff on his own I was so grateful I've been really tired lately. And now when I can't sleep for three hours straight in the middle of the night he starts chatting with me until we both fall asleep again....
My partners family asked us out, and I was definitely feeling so much pressure being on my feet for over an hour, so we sat down and I fell asleep after eating lunch (36wks) I woke up in my partners arms, and he'd been carrying me around for 20min while I drooled on his shoulder. He said he couldn't bring himself to wake me but he wanted to check things out ? I found a nice strong man.
He let me take a two hr nap today & picked kiddos up from school & took them out so I'd have peace. Sooooooo nice
Hubby has been so sweet with me this pregnancy if he hears me moan or just looks at my face when I get a little ache or pain he immediately asks me if everything is okay or gets up from wherever he is and rubs my lower back (I'm suffering from a lot of back pain this pregnancy?). He also gets home from work and takes charge of everything that has to do with our 3 year old and anything I left undone during the day. Speaking of my son even for him being just 3 he has been helping me so much and always asks me if I'm okay and if his baby sister is making me hurt or always asks me if he can give her a kiss or sometimes out of no where he hugs me and gives me kisses on my tummy. I'm so thankful for my two men for taking care of me and always making me feel loved ????❤️ hopefully they still treat me like a princess after this princess is born ???
I'm a stay at home mom at the moment. He comes home and he gets mad if I have done to much he cooks me dinner. Basically anything that requires effort he wants to do for me. Every Friday he comes home with a different color of roses. He is a very good man and could not ask for anyone better or would want.
The dishes and bathing and putting the kids to bed :) that's 2.5 kids later kinda romance!
My so has been super amazing lately ? I have been sick on and off for over a week now and he's been picking up my slack, nightly back rubs, letting me nap when ever and playing a lot with our rowdy toddler lol. He works A LOT. So seeing him use all his extra energy for all of this has been making my heart melt. Oh and I've been pasty white, red spots on my face, no make up, hair all whacky and he still tells me I'm beautiful. ?
My hubby surprised me with a lower back massager. I've had no back pain since I've been using it. ?
@may lmao omg I think we are I'm sure we have a lot thing in common lol poor hubbies they're probably going nuts by now ?
May I had to laugh at you hanging up because you felt bad ?
I could pick any amount of things my SO does or says, he really has been amazing, and very resilient given all of my moaning and getting upset. I haven't been bawling for nothing or anything, but things are getting the better of me now. SO always comforts me when he realises I'm sad or overwhelmed with it all.
He has told me he's jealous I get to feel her move around and kick all the time. I let him feel my tummy anytime she is doing the Riverdance in there. One of the best things we did was get a 3/4D scan done. He loved it so much we went again the following week. I was so happy for him, because it helped him bond with her so much. He routinely says how much he loves her already and kisses my tummy. He's nesting like mad too, in his own man way of course. On top of helping me out he is gone DIY mad. The smoke alarms all got replaced today to modern 'intelligent' ones that you can control remotely. More pots of paint bought yesterday, and fixes going on everywhere. He said jokingly (I hope ?) the baby will be judging us if she sees the state of the place!!
It's really sweet he wants to be as prepared as he can be for her. She is one very lucky baby to have him as her Daddy ???
I got up to go pee at 4 am one morning then he got up right after me... Then we try and go back to bed but the baby starts moving so he starts rubbing my belly and thumping gently on the babies head it was so sweet. I could tell he was doing it out of love. He made me feel so loved. A feeling I can't explain. It was so genuine.
One night we were lying here and he was feeling baby wiggle around. And he must've felt some extreme love and goes "you're literally giving me the best present ever". It was the sweetest thing to me.
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@mirna lol omg we are like living the same life!! I'm so touchy and emotional that I'll cry at the littlest thing and then he feels bad thinking he made me cry. It's silly. I can't wait either for hormones to balance out!!
Haha good thing hubby blames it on my hormones lol and if he gets mad at me I just cry n cry then he feels bad lol can't wait for my body hormones everything to be back to normal sometimes I can't stand myself lol
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@mirna I'm guilty of it too! Sometimes I'm sooooo hard on him for the littlest things, I feel bad afterwards. He does so much for me! And I can be a crazy nightmare! Especially with all these hormones! Lol
I agree may well I don't necessarily forget but when I'm upset or irritated I take it out on him and say so many mean things to him (ex:that he doesn't do anything or he doesn't do things my way ) ?
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I think a lot of us forget how much they do for us!! I tell him everyday I appreciate it all and he's amazing!
He's been really supportive with everything specially with the cleaning and watching our other 4 kids specially after coming home from work if I have laundry piled up he'll take it to a laundromat he's been great I can't thank him enough ok ladies I'm gonna cry now ? oh and if he feels me moving at night he'll start rubbing my back ?
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He has been super awesome too!! Like u said, he rarely lets me lift a finger. He's always so concerned about every moan and grunt I make, we moved the beginning of march and he did EVERYTHING! He does laundry, dishes, vacuuming, he put together all the baby's big stuff, helped after my showers, foot rubs, back rubs, he's drawn me bubble baths, took me shopping for maternity clothes, cooks dinner and grocery shops. Ugh! He's been such an angel!! I don't know what I'd do without him :)
My SO has literally treated me like a princess and I can't thank him enough. Unless it has to do with putting baby stuff away I rarely lift a finger these days. I'm worried when things go back to normal I'll be too used to being spoiled lol
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The latest thing he has done for me...
I was having a breakdown the other day about a possible c section due to our baby being breech. He knows I'm freaking out about it. He offered me such wonderful words of support and made some very good points, that it put me at ease.
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