She really said that?
I don't understand my MIL sometimes. I had a doctors appointment last week (the day before I turned 36 weeks) and my midwife said baby boy is head down and wayyyy down in my pubic bone. Great news right? So when my
Omg bambino we have the same lady. My MIL said to the whole family she needed to confront me about my birth choices for my first labour because "I nearly killed her grandson". I'm sorry my vagina didn't agree with your plans ?
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@bambino oh my!!! She sounds like such a delight ? I'm surprised you didn't deck her!
Because of issues I had birthing my 1st and 2nd kids my OB has monitored my baby's growth a lot this pregnancy. My husband and SIL and I were talking about it and my MIL told us that we were intervening too much. My husband said 'well we have good reason too, this has happened twice before, it's likely to happen again, and if we took that risk of leaving things the baby could be hurt or die' and my mil goes 'well that's up to God'. ???
My mother in law had her baby in the formula is best era so she constantly challenged me breastfeeding and would say I wasn't giving the best nutrients bc man made milk was created by the smartest doctors and I was not fully nourishing my baby with breastmilk and that I was teaching her to be needy and spoiled by needing to nurse only from me and I should train her to a bottle so others can handle her. Ect ect. Whatever. Parent how YOU like and I'll parent how I like ?❤️
I ignore 100% of everything that comes out of my MILs mouth. Glad she lives in another state. If it's not obnoxious it's bizarre and incorrect (and she always thinks she is correct). She has a horrible recollection of facts and events but is always argumentatively certain about herself. My husband is 48, but she is actually younger than my parents (teen mom), but her thinking is beyond antiquated and archaic.
??♀️ that's frustrating.
Sounds like something my MIL would say. She text every day to see how I'm doing, I always say good nothing new and she always says good YOU need to keep that baby in there longer! Like I have any control ?
She also told me if I go full term he will be to big to push out and I should talk to my doctor about induction next week...I want to ask her sooo badly "sense when can you see into the future??"
It's way more likely that the baby will stay head down at that point, but even though there is a small chance they could still flip, why point it out?! Us pregnant ladies have enough to deal with as it is, we dont need any added negativity!
That sounds just like my mom. Literally every time I have talked to her since finding out im pregnant, she has something negative to say about how hard it will be with a two year old and a newborn. Like, gee thanks mom, appreciate the support here.
...then why even bother asking???
It's not a big deal it's the truth lol I'm straight forward with ppl so I don't want anyone to sugar coat anything that's just me.
That's weird! But dont worry hun, your baby will stay in that position. My baby was breech until 33 weeks and than at 34 weeks scan she was head down. Today, I am 37w2d and she's still head down :) So, just be happy and dont let other people ruin the joy ;)
My mother is a negative Nancy....I just learned not to talk to her about my pregnancy at all. Anytime she asks how my baby girl is doing, I literally give her a one word response......which is usually she's good. Lol
Talk about downer! That's why I don't talk to my mil at all anymore. She's so negative and toxic. I'll send you positive energy that baby stays in that position until d day :)
I'm sorry you didn't get a positive response. I wouldn't tell her anything else for my own peace of mind if I were you. I did the same with my MIL. Congrats on your babies position! Good for you!?
Mine says things like "how are you feeling?" I respond, "I puked on the way to preschool drop off today & am pretty spent." She may respond, "that's nice glad you're doing ok."
Your MIL sounds like mine...lol
This girl on my fb is 8 weeks pregnant with her first child and she said she felt the baby 🤦🏼 ♀ 🤦🏼 ♀ 🤦🏼 ♀ 🤦🏼 ♀ 🤦🏼 ♀ people these days 😂😂😂
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her own when she is ready to come ! As much as I am anxious to meet her and have her home with me, those last few weeks of brain development and lung maturation means so much more to me! I'm hoping and praying that things turn around, and I don't have to get induced. I'm surely going to talk to my doctor about it Thursday when I go back.
Starting TWW. Anyone else? I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though What should i do i am very confused Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
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These MILs are seriously pain in the ass! I was having contraction sort of pain 2 weeks back and I said I am having really bad pain (shes my step mil and never gave birth ever) she said what I could least expect from her, OKAY SO? I was like nothing! Come on atleast you are a woman you have never experienced it before but you couldve soothe someone.. grrrrrrr ????? I SO HATE HER!!
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