Be careful feeney. I had a 'best friend' like this and as soon as I started to get suspicious of her and cut her out of my life guess who she was hooking up with? Yup my ex of 5 years. I noticed over time before that though that sometimes I got weird vibes around them both and ignored it. Trust your intuition!
She also hooked up with another guy from our group of friends though so it was really a surprise. That girl gets around ? she wouldn't even tell me her number!
My ex “best friend” apparently slept with a few of my exes. Her and my boyfriend in high school used to hang out sometimes and wait for me to get out of school. He had already graduated the previous year and she had early dismissal. Now that I know she slept with him and still currently is I can’t help but wonder if that’s what they were doing while they’d hang out waiting for me.
I've only ever dated 3 guys, one of my "friends" went after each one when we broke up. I only hate one of them but at least all 3 were smart enough to turn her down? that's the funniest thing to me that she tried so hard but got rejected by them all? she did go after other friends exes too.
i have an ex im still friends with they were friends b4 and i will always have some sort of connection with him and im sure they will remain friends we haven't been together in 20 years and we are still friends
I wouldn't want my friends to hate anyone even an ex. It's ok to very much dislike them and the wrong they did but not hate. They wouldn't hate them but also wouldn't willingly socialize with them either.
Her being friends with him wasn’t what I was upset about. It was her getting upset with me that I didn’t want to go to an small bbq with him there due to our past. She repeatedly told me I was being childish. She did hate him while we were dating. It wasn’t till after we broke up they started being friends. But I thought this pic fit that situation haha.
I'm not gonna ask a friend to stop being friends with an ex the bff's SO could be friends with the ex causing them all to hang out. Sometimes you just have to grow up and be a big girl/boy and do things you don't like out of respect. DH and I are friends with a couple who broke up and we still invite them to our house for events because we still care about them individually it wouldn't be fair for us to pick a side.
I understand your point pp. but she is single. She met him through me. We had a rough past. And he isn’t pleasant around me. Like I said I don’t care if she’s friends with him. Lol I just didn’t want to got to a small bbq she had where the only people I knew there was him and her. I didn’t know the other 10 people invited. I offered to take her out on a separate occasion and she refused. I was not going to be put in an uncomfortable situation.
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Be careful feeney. I had a 'best friend' like this and as soon as I started to get suspicious of her and cut her out of my life guess who she was hooking up with? Yup my ex of 5 years. I noticed over time before that though that sometimes I got weird vibes around them both and ignored it. Trust your intuition!
She also hooked up with another guy from our group of friends though so it was really a surprise. That girl gets around ? she wouldn't even tell me her number!
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Right... ask yourself... if she really your best friend?? What were her intentions with that one. Hmm
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One of my 'best friends' tried sleeping with my ex while I was in the hospital having his child.
Another would get mad when he would spend time with his child.
Women sometimes.
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My ex “best friend” apparently slept with a few of my exes. Her and my boyfriend in high school used to hang out sometimes and wait for me to get out of school. He had already graduated the previous year and she had early dismissal. Now that I know she slept with him and still currently is I can’t help but wonder if that’s what they were doing while they’d hang out waiting for me.
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A friend to all is a friend to none. ?
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I've only ever dated 3 guys, one of my "friends" went after each one when we broke up. I only hate one of them but at least all 3 were smart enough to turn her down? that's the funniest thing to me that she tried so hard but got rejected by them all? she did go after other friends exes too.
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My best friend is in a relatipnship with my ex husband.
Im happy for them actually, i know my kids are in good hands.
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i have an ex im still friends with they were friends b4 and i will always have some sort of connection with him and im sure they will remain friends we haven't been together in 20 years and we are still friends
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I wouldn't want my friends to hate anyone even an ex. It's ok to very much dislike them and the wrong they did but not hate. They wouldn't hate them but also wouldn't willingly socialize with them either.
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Her being friends with him wasn’t what I was upset about. It was her getting upset with me that I didn’t want to go to an small bbq with him there due to our past. She repeatedly told me I was being childish. She did hate him while we were dating. It wasn’t till after we broke up they started being friends. But I thought this pic fit that situation haha.
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What Ria said?
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I'm not gonna ask a friend to stop being friends with an ex the bff's SO could be friends with the ex causing them all to hang out. Sometimes you just have to grow up and be a big girl/boy and do things you don't like out of respect. DH and I are friends with a couple who broke up and we still invite them to our house for events because we still care about them individually it wouldn't be fair for us to pick a side.
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I understand your point pp. but she is single. She met him through me. We had a rough past. And he isn’t pleasant around me. Like I said I don’t care if she’s friends with him. Lol I just didn’t want to got to a small bbq she had where the only people I knew there was him and her. I didn’t know the other 10 people invited. I offered to take her out on a separate occasion and she refused. I was not going to be put in an uncomfortable situation.