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Thisisfeeney
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Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (27 нед.)

FURIOUS! So I used to work with this girl who is very opinionated. She is extremely religious, and judgmental. (I am not…

FURIOUS!

So I used to work with this girl who is very opinionated. She is extremely religious, and judgmental. (I am not putting all religious people into a category. Most are very nice) she just happens to be one of the unpleasant ones. Well anyway when I found out I was pregnant with Dd she came up to me almost in tears and said to me, "I am so sorry this must be so stressful." I was like oh thank you. Yes its scary but well figure it out and smiled. Then she said , "no I mean not being married, how will you look at that child knowing she was a mistake?" I was shocked. I replied, "excuse me she may have been a surprise but she is not a mistake." Well now that I'm pregnant again another happy surprise lol. I guess she follows me on insta. She said "I'll pray for you, and those poor children." Like really can someone be so rude. She also told me that when she has kids they will be planned. And she would never be so irresponsible to have an unplanned pregnancy.

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deleted-user

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Humor her.

"Thank you so much for your majestic prayer, oh faithful and obedient servant of our Lord Jesus Christ. Cleanse me of my sins, for I am a sinner who must repent!"

Or you could use the whole "for he who has not sinned must cast the first stone" but that one's not as sarcastic, and I like sarcasm. ?

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Your kids are a mistake? It sounds like she was the mistake lol.. Id flip if someone called my daughter that, my daughter was definitely a surprise and am not married to her father but she is a blessing more than anything else. And so are your kids hun, congrats btw xx

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They are the worst and most of the time they are doing exactly the same things that they judging other people for.

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I'd flat out tell her until the day she gets pregnant to keep her mouth shut because she doesn't know s*** . Sorry for the language but that pissed me off just reading it. I feel like marriage is a state of mind. If yall are happy together then who needs a piece of paper.

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feeneythepotstirrer

ThisisfeeneyМама дочки (1 год), беременна (27 нед.)

She is married. She got married a round a year ago. He is just as bad.

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Hahaha!

Well first she will have to find someone that would want to Marry such an ugly person.

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The prude will be old cold and bitter lol I can definitely see her married on her wedding night in a long Cotton night gown and the only position is missionary. I say the husband will divorce her run for the hills . I guess no one ever told her God doesn't like ugly and karma is a batch ?

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deleted-user

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Yeah I'd completely cut her off as much as you can, that's so rude and disrespectful.

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deleted-user

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I would flip shît if someone ever said that to me. What a miserable cow.

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deleted-user

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She'll probably end up barren for her words. ?

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deleted-user

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Throw scrambled eggs at her OP. Tell her u found her brains.

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deleted-user

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Answer is very simple block her from all your social media and forget about it!!! It's really that simple. U don't work with her anymore so it's not like u will be seeing her!! Don't let some random person that u don't have any ties to bother u so much!! It's not worth it

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Sometimes even married Christians have unplanned pregnancies ?? shows how much notice she took in sex Ed. These things happen!

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Children are not mistakes. Shame on her for thinking that way.

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deleted-user

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This is what annoys me.. I'm not religious so I am not interested in being married before/after having children, just because HER religion says that's the order to do things doesn't mean other people want to! I just don't get why people feel the need to tell other people the way they should do things?!

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deleted-user

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I'm married and our third definitely wasn't planned at all ?.

Block her. She sounds psychotic.

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deleted-user

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Mary may have just sat on a dodgy public toilet seat as everyone knows you can get pregnant that way!

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deleted-user

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Ask her if Jesus was a mistake since Mary wasn't married when she was impregnated.

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Anyone who believes a baby is a "mistake" doesn't deserve children. ?

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Similar to what one lady I used to work with. When I was pregnant with my first she knew my SO is black Jamaican (I'm white) and she asked me if I was sure I was going to keep my baby as everyone will look at my baby funny as my baby will never be the same colour skin as me and people would know the baby's dad is black. She honestly thought that people would have an issue with me having a mixed child and judge me because of it. Some people are so narrow minded. I have 2 beautiful caramel coloured babies who are my world. Just ignore the haters OP. Iv had lots of negative comments from people because of my interracial relationship and children. Some people are just nasty.

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What a batch ? I don't get people like this. I can't tell you how many people asked if so and I are going to get married before this next baby. We are engaged and I'm in no rush. Plus this mama wants to go to vegas and get wgw and elope there ?

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An unplanned pregnancy is never a mistake it's a blessing , regardless if you're raising that baby alone or not. The audacity of some people kills me. By the way, congratulations!!

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She's the one that needs the prayers. When you truly love God you don't have room in your heart to be so judgmental and purposely hurt people. I'm glad you blocked her!

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Are these the same people who claimed "we're all God's children." Then they turn to say that you're kids are a mistake cause you're not married. And they want to force Jesus down your throat to get you to believe that he is the one and only blah blah...facking brainwashed people.

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feeneythepotstirrer

ThisisfeeneyМама дочки (1 год), беременна (27 нед.)

I blocked her. She is impossible. I've always heard her horrible remarks. Married now. But I just couldn't believe the things she would say

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deleted-user

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Oooh I would have had a hard time not punching her in her face for calling my child a mistake ???

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deleted-user

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Don't worry, God probably doesn't hear her prayers anyway lol

The audacity of some people astounds me.

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deleted-user

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Religious? ? How would God feel knowing she thinks his creations are mistakes? I'm not religious, but every Christian I know calls them "miracles" instead. Much more tasteful imo.

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deleted-user

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? I hate hearing stuff like this... sorry OP for your experience.

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deleted-user

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I agree about blocking her. I would've told her I would pray for her bigotry ? I just can't stand the rude religious folks.

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deleted-user

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And then you told her to stfu right?

Maybe it's just because I'm tired and grouchy but I'm pretty sure I would lose my sh*t if someone said that to me.

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Block and be done. Dont say anything to her at work unless its work related. If she says something in person at work report her to HnR. I wanna say im shocked but I got that a lot with dd1. 18 and pregnant. Got pregnant a little after my wedding. Because I was so young pepole assumed I was unmarried and lived at home. Far from the truth been on my own since 16. Regardless if your married or not as long as that child has loving parents I couldn't care less. My mom said my brother and I where surprise babies but we where always wanted. Just came a little sooner then expected.

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That is so messed up.?

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deleted-user

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Lol! People are always getting their noses into everything..

Maybe she should take a look at her life before commenting on others

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deleted-user

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HAHAH. She probably wouldn't have talked to me again after she said that. I would have flipped. ?

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deleted-user

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I'd block her. Immediately.

Oh and congrats on both your sweet babies!!!

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I would tell her to pray for herself and her ugly heart instead only god has the right to judge and I'm not religious at all.congrats on ur kids btw :)

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