FURIOUS!
So I used to work with this girl who is very opinionated. She is extremely religious, and judgmental. (I am not putting all religious people into a category. Most are very nice) she just happens to be one of the unpleasant ones. Well anyway when I found out I was pregnant with Dd she came up to me almost in tears and said to me, "I am so sorry this must be so stressful." I was like oh thank you. Yes its scary but well figure it out and smiled. Then she said , "no I mean not being married, how will you look at that child knowing she was a mistake?" I was shocked. I replied, "excuse me she may have been a surprise but she is not a mistake." Well now that I'm pregnant again another happy surprise lol. I guess she follows me on insta. She said "I'll pray for you, and those poor children." Like really can someone be so rude. She also told me that when she has kids they will be planned. And she would never be so irresponsible to have an unplanned pregnancy.
She is married. She got married a round a year ago. He is just as bad.
The prude will be old cold and bitter lol I can definitely see her married on her wedding night in a long Cotton night gown and the only position is missionary. I say the husband will divorce her run for the hills . I guess no one ever told her God doesn't like ugly and karma is a batch ?
This is what annoys me.. I'm not religious so I am not interested in being married before/after having children, just because HER religion says that's the order to do things doesn't mean other people want to! I just don't get why people feel the need to tell other people the way they should do things?!
Similar to what one lady I used to work with. When I was pregnant with my first she knew my SO is black Jamaican (I'm white) and she asked me if I was sure I was going to keep my baby as everyone will look at my baby funny as my baby will never be the same colour skin as me and people would know the baby's dad is black. She honestly thought that people would have an issue with me having a mixed child and judge me because of it. Some people are so narrow minded. I have 2 beautiful caramel coloured babies who are my world. Just ignore the haters OP. Iv had lots of negative comments from people because of my interracial relationship and children. Some people are just nasty.
I blocked her. She is impossible. I've always heard her horrible remarks. Married now. But I just couldn't believe the things she would say
Block and be done. Dont say anything to her at work unless its work related. If she says something in person at work report her to HnR. I wanna say im shocked but I got that a lot with dd1. 18 and pregnant. Got pregnant a little after my wedding. Because I was so young pepole assumed I was unmarried and lived at home. Far from the truth been on my own since 16. Regardless if your married or not as long as that child has loving parents I couldn't care less. My mom said my brother and I where surprise babies but we where always wanted. Just came a little sooner then expected.

My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
on the 6th October I did 2 test with 2 lines , 3rd test was clear blue digital and was positive 2-3 weeks I was waiting for a month for a midwife appointment.. so yesterday I started bleeding went today for a scan and they go to me no sac .. but can see a cyst or a sac outside the womb so therefore she did another test there and it was negative .. she said if it was positive it would have been ectopic pregnancy but because it was negative she said it's miscarriage.
Has anyone else been through...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My doctor also recommended me getting the flu shot while pregnant ? I'm not sure if I want to or if i should ? It's all scary to me !! What do you ladies think ? Did you get the flu shot while pregnant ? Are there any risks? Or should I wait ? I'm so scared of taking anything while pregnant , much less getting this shot.. He said it isn't mandatory , just recommended.
Humor her.
"Thank you so much for your majestic prayer, oh faithful and obedient servant of our Lord Jesus Christ. Cleanse me of my sins, for I am a sinner who must repent!"
Or you could use the whole "for he who has not sinned must cast the first stone" but that one's not as sarcastic, and I like sarcasm. ?