I've gained 24lbs this pregnancy so far and the weight is really starting to get to me. I know it's normal and healthy for baby but with struggling with eating disorders the majority of my life and finally hitting my goal weight of 99 lbs before I got pregnant- it's really getting me down. I don't even want my boyfriend touching me anymore..
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@beakymcspence I do see a councillor, weekly, and he helps me through it a lot, :)
I think the weight gain issue is huge for a lot of us, but you know what? You will be surprised at how fast you can lose that weight. Don't let it get you down. You are beautiful inside and out, especially on the out when growing a baby
This may be something you want to speak with a councillor about, that can help you navigate through these feelings. Depending on your height 99 pounds may not have been a healthy goal weight in itself. I struggled with being underweight till my early twenties, and so of course gaining weight during pregnancy was an adjustment for sure. After having kids I’m probably the healthiest weight I’ve ever been at 127! Good luck🤞🏻
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Zero sex life
Me and my SO have absolutely no sex life anymore and it's really starting to get to me. I try and give him hints and still nothing. I feel like he's not attracted to me anymore and it's really starting to upset me /: is anyone else having this problem?
I really really hate the fact that I got stretch marks on my boobs. And it kinda bothers me when mommas tell me they are something to be proud of because it's my baby tattoos or my proof I was growing a miracle...I'm pretty sure once my son is in this world with me HE will be the proof I grew a miracle inside me. I know they try to make me feel better about it but there really is nothing beautiful about stretch marks! No matter how you put it.
labor partners
Who will be there to help you get through your labor? I'm29 weeks and am realizing I dont have anyone to be there for me. Really, I dont have anyone now to get me through my pregnancy. I've been doing it all on my own but once it's Showtime, I won't be able to do it on my own. It's a little depressing and gets me emotional but I need to snap out of it and find someone soon!!!
Its definitely understandable that you hate the weight gain, it took me till my 3rd baby to be okay with the gaining! But Just remember that after baby you can work on it again.