I don't get it
Who asks a pregnant lady to borrow money? When she's about to take 6 or more weeks off work???
Seriously, my SO has this aunt. Mannnnn she is always asking him for $20 here $50 there. The f*** ?! she has a husband who works just fine and only has 1child to care for. We have 3, soon to be 4 under 5years old. We have bills! We get by but that's about it, zero luxuries. They have a big family too but I know why she asks my SO instead of anyone else because she knows he will basically never say no.
Pisses me right off. She better never ask him in person with me in the room because I'm fully tired of it and will tell her to ask her husband for money.
People baffle me. Lol worst timing ever to ask to borrow money.
Lol my parents. When I was pregnant with my oldest, my stepmothers great uncle in Africa died. She never knew him, but received an email when he died letting her know that he left her a HUGE inheritance! Millions! They just had to send some money to get it released. And then some more money. And then more.
When I was in labor, the people running the scam requested one more amount... I think it was like $400. My parents ran home to grab my checkbook for me so I could lend it to them. I had saved up alot for leave since I lived with them and had no bills at the time, but it still blew my mind. I was like really? Now?!
I can laugh about it now though.
I have unpaid maternity leave too. And I'm pretty sure my bills triple hers lol. If that... I told her I could do $20 at most lol.
Seriously. df's mom does this constantly. She spends all of her money supporting a bum - buying him beer, cigarettes, clothes & taking him on the boat. Then wants to ask df for gas money or money to buy his little sister food. How can you support a jobless grown man before feeding your child? ? meanwhile we have a house to pay for, twice as many bills as her, a toddler, a baby due in 12 days - and my mat leave is unpaid. Then when he says he can't give her any money right now - She runs back and talks sh*t about him to their whole family. When she drops the "your sister is hungry" line, we drop her off some things to eat - no money. & she still talks sh*t saying he won't help her blah blah blah. Well you need to help yourself first. ?
We have babies to take care of, plus being out of work. #facepalm
I don't get why they would think that it's ok...
My ex's mother did this!! Was 38 weeks with the twins, she asked for 50 dollars which we had to take out of bill money, I had the babies two days later, and we ended up not having all of rent that week and it actually threw us off for a while. So rude. I objected, but my ex gave her the money anyway.