RayOfMySunShine
rayofmysunshine
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I don't get it

Who asks a pregnant lady to borrow money? When she's about to take 6 or more weeks off work???

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My ex's mother did this!! Was 38 weeks with the twins, she asked for 50 dollars which we had to take out of bill money, I had the babies two days later, and we ended up not having all of rent that week and it actually threw us off for a while. So rude. I objected, but my ex gave her the money anyway.

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Seriously, my SO has this aunt. Mannnnn she is always asking him for $20 here $50 there. The f*** ?! she has a husband who works just fine and only has 1child to care for. We have 3, soon to be 4 under 5years old. We have bills! We get by but that's about it, zero luxuries. They have a big family too but I know why she asks my SO instead of anyone else because she knows he will basically never say no.

Pisses me right off. She better never ask him in person with me in the room because I'm fully tired of it and will tell her to ask her husband for money.

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rayofmysunshine
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People baffle me. Lol worst timing ever to ask to borrow money.

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My MIL isn't asking to borrow money. She's asking us to give her money. We are 3 weeks away from baby #2 and she thinks this is the right time to ask for money ?

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Lol my parents. When I was pregnant with my oldest, my stepmothers great uncle in Africa died. She never knew him, but received an email when he died letting her know that he left her a HUGE inheritance! Millions! They just had to send some money to get it released. And then some more money. And then more.

When I was in labor, the people running the scam requested one more amount... I think it was like $400. My parents ran home to grab my checkbook for me so I could lend it to them. I had saved up alot for leave since I lived with them and had no bills at the time, but it still blew my mind. I was like really? Now?!

I can laugh about it now though.

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Crack heads.

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rayofmysunshine
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I have unpaid maternity leave too. And I'm pretty sure my bills triple hers lol. If that... I told her I could do $20 at most lol.

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This is what you need to say to them HELL NO

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Seriously. df's mom does this constantly. She spends all of her money supporting a bum - buying him beer, cigarettes, clothes & taking him on the boat. Then wants to ask df for gas money or money to buy his little sister food. How can you support a jobless grown man before feeding your child? ? meanwhile we have a house to pay for, twice as many bills as her, a toddler, a baby due in 12 days - and my mat leave is unpaid. Then when he says he can't give her any money right now - She runs back and talks sh*t about him to their whole family. When she drops the "your sister is hungry" line, we drop her off some things to eat - no money. & she still talks sh*t saying he won't help her blah blah blah. Well you need to help yourself first. ?

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My sister to

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My sil. ? and to think she's older and has had a child of her own first. Ha.

Just repeat after me op, "Noooooooooooo".

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My mil ???

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Pp I guess that all MIL do that to their sons ?

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Tony do we have the same mil?! Is one of us a side chick? ?

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I had people ask. But I didn't think anything of their pregnancy etiquette... I missed that one... Guess it would have been a good excuse not to lend if I wasn't comfortable!

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Because they don't care ?

??

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I don't get why they think it's okay either... I mean a baby ain't cheap! ? Especially when they think borrowing $500 and not paying it back is okay just because it's from your family... Ugh

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My babydad do that nd dont be s*** for us it never benefits me or his son he think that s*** is cool when I'm the one doing everything well u having fun

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rayofmysunshine
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We have babies to take care of, plus being out of work. #facepalm

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My Inlaws

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rayofmysunshine
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I don't get why they would think that it's ok...

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Very selfish people ? my MIL is always asking to borrow money from my fiancé it's extremely annoying.

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rayofmysunshine
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My little sister...

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My someday mil.

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