Hex asked for EOW for her mother who doesn't get to see SS. She lives in the same town as us but we stopped sending him over there because her mom would leave him with random people who'd hit SS (then 3) with a switch or a stick from what he described.

She wanted all holidays however our lawyer said a judge will never agree to that. So odd years we get his bday and second half of Christmas break/New Years. Even years we get week of Thanksgiving break and First week of Christmas Break/Christmas. All other holidays are whoever'a time it falls on that year. She gets an overnight on her moms bday unless it interferes with our year for Thanksgiving Break.

Thanks y'all! @Mish and @Coco I don't know why you didn't see it. It said Mish "liked" it. Maybe it's a glitch within the app itself? This happens in my ttc group. I'll post something and refresh it and it's gone. Then it'll dhow up later...

Anyways right now Hex is responsible for all travel because she chose to move 500 miles across the state. If we move a few hours away (we're looking at far Northern California) we meet in our current town. If someone moves farther than I'd reasonable to drive then Hex and Dh will discuss travel arrangements. I feel like it should've been better defined than that. Oh well.

Hex pays for all travel to and from her place in London or wherever, right?

That's awesome!!! Way to go.

We won primary physical custody with split legal. We're allowed to move.

I didn't see this. Sorry. What happened?

Thank you Arose! I didn't even think f that. She does all traveling right now.

Also, y'all remember we were going to trial. I wrote a 10 page paper outlining all her bs and she backed off. She told our lawyer she doesn't want sole custody anymore.