F***ing Disgusting! SS7 accidentally peed all over the toilet paper and just left it! This has…

Can you put the toilet paper on a roll holder? There is no way that 'accidently' happens with my ds4. If he wants to be silly and pee everywhere, he goes outside.

The first incident the toilet paper was on the edge of a shelf. This time the toilet paper was at the top of one of those spiral toilet paper holders. It was all stacked in a straight line.

I think he did it on purpose. Last night Hex told him she's coming to visit him. She gets visitation for an overnight the last Wednesday of every month and he always acts out.

SS just admitted he did it on purpose.

He said e wanted to pee all over everything.

My husband's former stepson used to come over when SD would come over. He used to pee all over the toilet seat and leave it like that. I would sit in it sometimes not knowing when I would go to the bathroom in the middle of the night!!!!!! So DISGUSTING!!!!!!

He was 10-12 at the time.

@SpringForward 10-12 at that time?! ? Thank you now I really have no hope that this will ever end! ? That's terrible by the way. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.

@Coco ewwwwww! Every time I hear you say it or even talk about your skids I get sick to my stomach! So gross!

@Coco I've always wanted to ask you, and I don't mean this offensively so please don't take it that way, but why are you still with your Dh? I'd be so far gone by now if I were you. Do you feel like you get anything out of your relationship with him? I've heard you talk about taking the kids and going to your moms but not wanting to ruin their lives. Are you just waiting it out until your skids turn 18 and you can "way your hands of everything" so to speak?

@MissE how do you get your 5yo to wash the bathroom?! I just got SS7, nearly 8, to put his plate in the sink and maybe he'll pick up his toys. And that's a big maybe on a good day.

@sammi I'm living what you go through too and SS7 can't even wipe his own butt!

@missE any parenting advice for a FTM?

It be greatly appreciated

@Coco that's a brilliant idea! I know it's unacceptable. I'll talk with Dh about the making him clean the bathroom idea! Thank you!

@MissE that's amazing! I hope my son does chores like yours does.

@jess_cee that's so disgusting! You know what I did when SS (then 4) wouldn't wipe his own butt? He walked around dirty! You know what I did when he would smear his poop all over the toilet seat and walls which he did twice. I made him clean it up! Try it with you SS7 it works wonders. Of course you need your Dh on board and he sounds incompetent.

My bio son (8) is equally gross. Sorry mama. Boys are gross.

Omg I feel u mama. My ss is 8 almost nine and does he same things and I don't know if it hormones or something. But my patience is wearing thin. I'll sit on wet toilet seats cause he has peed on the seat or even on the floor or just leaving poop in toilet and not flushing it. Or just lil things that drive me insane. And ur right it's like is there no common sense

My step son will go poop and put the toilet paper he wiped with in the trash instead of the toilet it drives me nuts

I cleaned dried on poop smeared on the inside of ss10 closet door after he moved out. In addition to the daily piss. So, at least it's in the bathroom? ?‍♀️

Sorry. It sucks.

I feel sad for you, because I know exactly what you're feeling.

My ss would poop in his underwear a bit and sit it in, so it smeared. And his excuse was always "I didn't want to stop playing, I liked what was on tv". Instead of telling anyone or putting it in the wash, he would change his underwear and put the soiled ones back in a draw. Not the underwear draw but any draw. Usually inside out too. So I would go to put clothes away and I would find it and all the clothes around it have poop on them. Sigh....

Hex told us that what we should do is walk him to the toilet, sit in the toilet and watch him poop & WIPE HIS BUM FOR HIM! Yes you read correctly, she said we should still be wiping his bum.

He is 8. That's never going to happen... obviously she still does it at her house.